Should I marry him to leave this hell?

Question

im planning to marry someone I used to date for a year cuz he wanted me and I think he wants to be a good husband I can see the signs I'm 21 yo and maybe I'll marry him when I become 22 or something 
and somehow this is the best option I have so far that's not how I wanted to live but I'm living with my dad and brother and I'll live in hell after my graduation don't talk about my mom she said the she won't see me again I want to leave what do you think 
I love the man who want to marry me but it's just hard decision 
also my dad won't let me work any work in this motherfucker

Jackfruit_83041 🇩🇿 · Accepted Answer

for me if that person suits u go with him change the environment u will hv a lot opportunitys in the future u will suffer if u wanna work nd be like a strange independent woman in such a family like that i don't say that it's a bad family bcs it's the same case in the majority algerienne familys so live ur life with someone u love nd support each other

Lemon_82859 🇩🇿 · Answer

اذا جاءكم من ترضون دينه و خلقه فزوجوه"

Croissant_83446 🇩🇿 · Answer

go with what you have best for now.. but always keep in mind that anything can happen and everything could change so prepare a plan for you on your own with no family and no husband .. just in case :)

Lemon_82859 🇩🇿 · Answer

اذا كان هاذ الانسان يرى بصلحه حتى و لوكان كنتوا في علاقة من قبل يقدر هاذ شيء يصلح لكليكما

Potato_82890 🇪🇬 · Answer

I had a friend who been through the same case, and i know the struggle you’re facing dear, you have all my support ♥️
In my opinion, try to convince them on the work thing, keep talking and find away that your family and you agree on, like working from home or even a place that near your house kind of thing. They’ll resist at the beginning but eventually they’ll be okay with it.