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Cookies_80069 🇮🇳

3 days ago

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Feeling Emotional

I am getting married next month and I have so much anxiety about everyone judging me and my partner. I have no idea how to overcome this issue. It is constantly putting me down. My parents have never been supportive and think I am just being overly sensitive. They never understood me as a child. I don’t want to burden my partner by constantly talking about this. I have spoken enough and he tries his best to give me much support as possible but it’s not helping. I know this sounds crazy because this is my day and I should be super happy but I never wanted such a big wedding with unknown family and people who my parents are inviting. I am very introverted. Simple wedding with very close family and people I know was something I dreamed of but moreover it feels like the wedding is for them and not for me. My partner wants to celebrate this day too but I don’t want him to feel I’m draining him with the way I am behaving which I know I am but I don’t know what to do. everything is so controlled by my family and his family. I hate being the Center of attention. I am so stuck.

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Marshmallow_60283 🇪🇬

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3 days ago

Talk to them and let them know that you don't want this. You want a wedding that makes you happy and comfortable. This is your day, the day of your life. Choose to celebrate in your own way, with your partner, not in someone elses way.

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Potato_88659 🇪🇹

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3 days ago

If you have the financial capability, try therapy with your family, saying " to embrace changes" . Then during the sessions, try to tell them how you feel about the situation. but since the wedding is in a month and you'll probably be busy planning, try to pick your own decorations. You might not be able to control the people that'll come, but at least you can control how YOUR wedding will like

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