betrayal

Candle_84324 🇩🇿

4 weeks ago

Feeling Confused

i went to a friend, something traumatic happened to me and i went to her for comfort, i was hoping she’ll say a nice word, she came to me before and i always helped always said kind words for her, never judged her, and i was hoping she’ll do the same, but she straight ahead called stupid and didnt s

Marshmallow_79744 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Lost

I had a friend at work ... she was kinda work bestie i loved her so much she was nice and caring she meant a lot to me ... until i stared discovering things about her accidentally i was noticing her little lies .. she lies alot to people i knew that already .. and i knew she had multiple attitudes w

Marshmallow_63584 🇺🇸

1 month ago

Feeling Frustrated

it is hard to put trust in people. I have a construction project and a friend of mine is the client. unfortunately I have to leave the country to be with my wife and have to be here now since our documents also needs to be processed already. I entrusted my project to another friend of mine and few t

Strawberry_65203 🇦🇺

3 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Over the last 12–18 months, I was engaged to a man I deeply loved and had envisioned a future with. But our relationship slowly began to unravel in painful, traumatic ways. It became emotionally damaging, and at times, crossed into abusive territory. Including an incident of physical violence that l

Hazelnut_52786 🇪🇬 Let yourself grieve, but don’t stay in the place that broke you. Surround yourself with people and things that make you feel safe, and take small steps each day toward healing. Your future holds more than this pain—trust that better days will come.

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I have tried everything to hold on. I have communicated, compromised, supported my then fiancé’s dreams, and even justified the harm being done, both to myself and to others because I loved him that much. But instead of my vulnerability being met with accountability or care, I was shut out, criticized, and made to feel like I was the problem.

After returning from a traumatic experience overseas, where I nearly died, I came back changed. Raw, scared, and needing comfort. But my then fiancé told me to “get over it.” That moment stuck with me, and the pain of being emotionally abandoned in my time of need has not gone away.

Even as our relationship became more fractured, I held on. Continuing to defend my then fiancé, even to those who said, “This isn’t okay.” But eventually, my fiancé broke up with me, two weeks ago. And even after ending the engagement, my ex fiancé began sending messages that were accusatory and hurtful. Blaming me for the breakdown of the relationship, accusing me of “talking shit” behind his back, and demanding explanations for things that weren’t true. It became clear that rather than taking responsibility, my ex was more concerned with his own reputation.

In the aftermath, I confided in a close mutual friend. Someone I believed was a neutral and safe place. But this friend broke that trust, sharing vulnerable conversations with my ex fiancé and worsening the tension. That betrayal cut me deeply. It felt like being hurt all over again, like no space was truly safe. So I chose to set a boundary, deciding not to bring this friend when collecting my belongings, and instead asked someone else. A longtime friend and ex-coworker who is a true emotional support, to come with me.

Even with this plan, I still fear how I’ll be perceived. I’m worried I’ll appear “messy,” like the pain of the last few weeks will be visible on my face. Because it has been brutal, being abandoned again, misunderstood again, and made to feel like my trauma is my fault.

I’ve also admitted that in my darkest moments, I’ve questioned whether surviving that traumatic experience overseas was worth it. That maybe it would’ve been easier not to come back. I feel lost. Like everything I thought I could count on has fallen apart. I don’t know what to live for, or how to believe I’m still worthy of love and safety after being hurt so deeply.

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Avocado_52276 🇮🇳

8 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Been Married for 5 years. He was jobless and I taken care of all his needs for five years. Been betrayed in many ways throughout the journey and still I sticked with him. But later when I found out that he is involved with another women also, that was the breaking point. And I applied for divorce, s

Mango_11276 🇶🇦

11 months ago

Feeling Drained

I lost the ability to trust for some reason, idk why but everytime someone is showing me genuine love and loyalty, I keep thinking they’re doing something behind my back, or maybe I’m being betrayed and I’m not aware of it, is this normal?

Mango_28521 🇪🇬

1 year ago

Feeling Disappointed

I'm an introvert human and i always prefer to have less friends but close to me and lately i had or maybe still have , IDK but that person had all my trust and was the closest one for me and even made a bet on her that she won't let me down and she even called me best friend and that makes sense bec

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Biscuit_26081 🇧🇾

1 year ago

Feeling Heartbroken

I met one of my best friend today we did eye contact without any talking and my body started shaking after i remembered all what she did to me 💔 i really wanted to talk to her and our relation back but this is impossible because she didn’t even try to say sorry or try to fix anything and she is to

Apple_6478

1 year ago

Feeling Great 🤩

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Avocado_4172

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

I was going out with my friend two days ago, and she made a situation that embarrassed me and affected me to this day. I should blame her or not, knowing that she is my close friend.

Watermelon_4128

1 year ago

Feeling Bad 😞

I found out my husband is cheating on me. He lives a double life. He even have a kid with this other woman the same age as our son. I really think i should leave him. Im concern is about my child. Funny enough he wants me to stay and says he loves me but

Pear_63699 🇪🇬

Not Me When I Hate Everyone & Get Angry So Easily

I know it's not me when I suddenly hate everyone, and get angry so easily over everything maybeitsbecausehecamebackandistryingtoactlikehedidintghostmeforamonththatweirdassguyhedoneallofthatjustbecauseifoundouthisrealnamebecauseofhisstupidty ...see more

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Apple_52036 🇪🇬

You Don't Need to Solve Everything Today

“Stress has a way of making everything feel heavier than it truly is, pulling your mind in a hundred directions at once. But even in those overwhelming moments, remember that you are not defined by what you’re going through. Take a slow breath and let your thoughts settle. You don’t need to solve everything today. Give yourself permission to pause, to step back, to rest. Strength isn’t only about pushing forward — sometimes it’s in choosing to breathe, reset, and try again with a clearer heart.” ...see more

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Pear_81918 🇩🇿

Going through circles, overthinking everything rn

hey hope ur doing good well im not im going through Circles im overthinking too much I have a lot of family problems extra but I dont really care about them . yes they do effect slowly sometimes I crash out sometimes I cry and that's rarely happens my dad used to hit me and say bad things to me when I was young like 5 till not and im 15 also my grandma she said man don't cry now I cant express my feelings the normal way today I felt soo bad cuz I think everyday that im a useless person I want to be better I want Money to buy clothes and perfume I want to take care of my self and look good its not necessary but the fact that I cant even buy clothes because we don't have money kinda hurts . well I have a lot of clothes but non of them are mine some neighbours and family members I dont have a problem with it actually I like that I get beautiful free clothes but I cant buck what I dont have I also need Money for food cuz I love calisthenics and running and basketball but I only train a little cuz I dont have a reason to u dont even have a reason to live except my mom that would cry if I die she doesn't understand me at all and doesn't help whatsoever but I still love her I also want my own room I dont have brothers I share the room with my 2 sisters I want my personal room to be cool a pc gamer not like my shity pc that can't even run minecraft properly and a calisthenics equipment and a place for my electric stuff I love electronics soo much and robotics I want to learn them soo badly but I cant I dont think because im lazy it's just lack of support no one really care about me I love doing many stuff like playing chess solving rubik's cube (my record is 38seconds :3 ) I have an addiction its gooning I didn't do it for 2 months im kinda proud of my self but not really because I've been doing it for 2 years and watching porn and talking to bitches online I was doing it like 5 to 10 times a day last summer it got to the point that i dont feel bad after doing it I also didn't pray for a wile thats bad I think my addiction did something bad to me idk if I should go to the doctor every time I pee cum comes out I dont even touch my pee pee and it goes out I think my balls work more then normal ppl im not pervert actually I just realised that I also have a crush on a cute short beautiful girl she's kinda weird just like the way I like im obsession with her but sadly she loves another person even tho I see her looking at me a lot in class and talk to me nicely in dm but she loves another guy like I said im an overthinker I always imagine hugging her or aging with her or just talking to her because I never talked to her in class before only in Instagram she knows that she's my crush I told her I told her a little bit of how I think I said that im scared if u get mad at me when I think about us together and a lot of stuff its bad that she doesn't like me but good because we won't be in a haram relationship I have a gf before she's 5 years older she's 20 now she made my life better soo much and now after I broke up with her because I didn't want haram I have a big gap my feelings are fucked I wsnt to be with her soo badly I never met her I never talked to somone near me only online i dont know how to talk im shy my mind is full with stupid thoughts I dont really study it doesn't effect me and my grades I want to get married now that's the only halal way to fill my gap and my lack of love and support I prefer older women probably because they understand and treats me better just like my ex maybe ill have a nother girlfriend if I make sure she will marry me maybe idk anyway if u made it here thx for reading soo much I dont even remember all the things I typed hope u didn't love u and bbye ...see more

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