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Coffee_80783 🇩🇿

2 weeks ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Sooo we done and it was soo toi and It should have ended but i stile have two think one He is from my family and I can meet him and all his family knows about our relationship even his Mother two What should I do, whether I develop myself and how I deal with seeing him and his family and his Mother

Apple_81641 🇩🇿

3 weeks ago

Feeling Emotional

hi I’ve broken up with my gf recently we’ve been through this so many times but this time I think it’s over bcs in the previous times I used to be afraid and thinking about her all the time and she eventually comes back but this time I realized she is not gonna change and so is our relationship , bu

Flower_87789 🇮🇳 Sorry to hear about what you're going through.. I know your going through a tough time...since I have went through this many times & each time deeper n deeper...can break you from inside if you not heal your self first... FOCUS ON HEALING YOUR SELF FIRST BY ENGAGING & COMPLETELY FOCUSING ON SELF LOVE...ONCE YOU GET HEALED...MEET HER FACE TO FACE & MAKE CLEAR HEARTHLY SOFT CONVERSATION WITH CALM

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Cheese_81044 🇩🇿

3 weeks ago

Feeling Heartbroken

i was in a relationship with someone for a year and he was planning to marry me but when the marriage feel closer I started to think about us and if can really live with him and I was confused I mean he made me love him then he starts gettin mad when I get mad and I ended our relationship when we w

Potato_83388 🇩🇿 my sister always believe what a person says when they r angry and for me you did the best decision and there is something in witch I believe and always makes me relieved and this is that no one marry the husband or the wife of someone else so if you broke up that just means he is not meant to be your husband. and believe you deserve a gentleman and always BETTER.

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Apple_81641 🇩🇿

3 weeks ago

Feeling Stressed

after the break up I feel so stressed out and exhausted especially when I see her, anxiety feeling sad and I’m about to cry but I can’t like someone is stabbing me in the heart and I can’t do nothing please help how can I stop this pain

Coffee_85499 🇮🇳

3 weeks ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Hey, I’m really going through a tough time right now. It’s not just a breakup for me — I lost both a relationship and the best friendship I had. My ex and I were together for about six months. Honestly, I started it casually at first, but he fell in love and wanted to be with me forever. I told him

Grape_65258 🇪🇬 hay can we talk?

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Apple_81641 🇩🇿

4 weeks ago

Feeling Heartbroken

I just broke up with my gf she’s the love of my life I won’t heal from this I know but at least it won’t hurt like this anymore what I need is an advice for how to continue life without her i know some of you would say “focus on yourself do what you love” but how love is very strong it will break u

Chocolate_84069 🇩🇿 الصراحة هذا مش حب هذا تعلق انا مريت بيها وكنت حاس بلي هنا تخلاص ومنقدرش بلا بيهم بصح بمجرد ما جبدت عنهم كانت فترة صعبة في البداية فقط بعدها خلاص وضك وكل ما نتفكر كيفاه كنت متعلق بيهم ونسعى لرضاهم نبغي نخنق روحي صدقني اهم حاجة هي البعد ابتعد فترة تنسى كلشي وكل صعب يهون

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Watermelon_83891 🇩🇿

4 weeks ago

Feeling Depressed

after joining the colleg i met a girl we was a realy good friends we was very close to each other i was in love with her but she didn’t have the same feelings as me after one year of our friendship i tel her that i love her she said no nicely to be hosnet she said that we don’t have to ruin our frie

Biscuit_84193 🇪🇬 yes u made the right decision

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Mango_83743 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Alone

u may think my problem is not that bad but I swear I can't get over it I dont know why I had fight with my bsf and she left me even that i apologised to her so many times seeing her face every morning is not helping me I wanna change university but I can't cz it's my last year we were planning to d

Pumpkin_82559 🇩🇿 u apologiesed ? m9bltch? trbh filaman khirha fi ghirha mtb9aych thawli f nas not ur fault dorka now jst focus on memoir t3k mb3d sahla

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Avocado_80766 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Exhausted

Me and my partner broke up a month ago we had been together for 4 months and now healing feels really heard at the beginning i felt good because this relationship exhausted me but rn i miss him, 3 days ago a friend of mine told me that she was happy for me because it was toxic and she added that he

Mango_78834 🇪🇬 it seems like you still want to fix everything between you and him and get back together no matter what

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Avocado_80766 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Me and my partner broke up a month ago and now healing feels really heard at je beginning i felt good because this relationship exhausted me but rn i miss him , 3 days ago a friend of mine told me that she was happy for me because it was toxic and she added that he would already had replaced me and

Pumpkin_80706 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Meh

Im a girl who didn't believe in love or relationships out of marriage and i always been that way untill this guy came along, he was perfect and matches all my standards and we were willing to make it official and one day he just started searching for reasons and starting problems just to break up a

Carrot_80292 🇩🇿 Sometimes people leave not because you’re hard to love but because they can’t handle your depth Don’t blame yourself Let him be your lesson not your wound Real love doesn’t run it stays through the hard parts 💔✨

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Apple_57254 🇪🇬

2 months ago

Feeling Emotional

Carrot_71203 🇪🇬 I wish you success

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Express your Feeling anonymously

i know that this is not the place for what I'm about to share but well I dont have other options so if you're gonna judge or give religious advice don't read this or comment on it skipping a post is an option and i know that this is not for everyone and probably no one here well get it but anyway. 
the d/s dynamic i was in  just ended and honestly it hurts because the connection was good there was chemistry and all of it was good k**k or not. it ended in a respectful way and on good terms but I'm just gonna miss it, every part of it the care the safety the play the mundane talks and interactions the jokes the structure the respect and the things I've learned which I'm still gonna do in honour of it. i was fulfilled, calm and happy in a way i never was before i felt belonging and not being seen as too much or too little for the first time and i experienced a lot of personal growth in not a very long time and i will forever be beyond grateful. and as much as I'm hurt I'm a million more times  happy for them, they deserve happiness and all the best and from the bottom of my heart i wish them everything good in life and all the peace and joy there is however deep down i just wanted to be part of it. but im glad i was for at least a while and i hope they remember me and smile♡ 
it was so good and safe and comfortable to the point i don't even want to get into something else even in the long term, i won't do anything like this right now because that's gonna be a bad coping mechanism and i don't even want to. 
I'll keep hanging onto the good memories and honouring it by continuing the self care and growth road they put me on the begging of and have my own healing journey they helped me with and on very hard days i have my physical reminder that tells me it was real, but honestly having that physical reminder hurts so much but 'look at the bright side'.
i keep having a lot of what if thoughts but maybe if any of those thoughts were reality things might have not been the way they were and honestly i won't change a thing about what it♡
and i seriously wish that i was good to them too because they deserve nothing but good so i hope i was that♡
I'll try to manage the gap that this left and fill it with something that will make me proud and happy♡ it might not be for them but it's for me, because of them♡ 
if anyone read this far and if anyone cares please wish them all the best♡

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Avocado_61070 🇺🇸

4 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Orange_40211 🇲🇦 hey..I’ve been through something similar, so I really feel what you're going through. It’s not easy at all, but I’ve learned that sometimes life removes people from our path so we can find ourselves again..Focusing on myself..my peace, growth, and the little things that make me happy..helped me slowly heal. Letting go doesn’t mean forgetting; it just means choosing yourself and your peace..

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hey everyone, I dont believe my situation is common, that's why I'm writing this just to here everyone's opinion.
i have been in a 2 year relation with a girl that I loved the most, I gave her everything I could, we are both 20, but the problem, is that I'm a us citizen and she's not. 
after trump got to office, and ice started their deportation activities, her dad decided to go back to his country cus he's so tired of all those situations, and low payment jobs.
Basically she'll stay alone, that's why, her dad and other people adviced her to marry someone else just as a business for papers.
I'm 20, not stable financially and I dont meet the financial requirements to give my spouse papers.
So, who decided to marry her? A friend from her job offered that. He started flirting with her, calling her love, and one day told her idc about your bf, she let him be, cus he is the only option. Everything was cool until her alpastor (pastor/priest) told her that if we dont take a step back from our relationship, the government will discover that everything is fake and it will be bad. 
Anyways I understood, eventhough it was hard. just a day after our breakup, that guy told her that he likes her, she felt disappointed but let it go, between those time, they opened so much to each others, started going out, he go to her house daily and spend time with her family, everything was just aa friends to her, but he reached a point that the guy talked to her sexually and tried to kiss her.
Here, she decided to stop everything, with an afraidness of being deported, so she kept him as a friend and told me, maybe she likes him, she doesn't know, she's confused, but it doesn’t matter cus she loves and it's different. 
Yes it did hurt me and all, but psychologically, there was explanations to her actions, and he was only a distraction nothing else. 
two days ago, her pastor called her again, and told her, if she doesn't do the process, he saw that she'll hey deported, and she has to let me go, and if I wanna stay, it has to only be a business.

so now, I'm just letting her go, trying to live my life just as a friend with her, but it really burns and costing me pain.

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Chocolate_52578 🇪🇬

6 months ago

Feeling Confused

if I was in a relationship with a guy and I was clear with him in all my family’s demands and now he’s telling me that he can’t afford any of this what should I do ?? wait for him to make the money as his family won’t help him or should I leave as time is really running and I’m a girl I really d

Strawberry_52383 🇮🇳

7 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

my ex broke up with me , reason = he was feeling mentally suffocated and he couldn’t handle a relationship cz he has to work on himself starting from communication. he broke up with me between my exams which lead to my exams going in the drains . I had a panic attack and I’m just spiraling through

Pear_63699 🇪🇬

Not Me When I Hate Everyone & Get Angry So Easily

I know it's not me when I suddenly hate everyone, and get angry so easily over everything maybeitsbecausehecamebackandistryingtoactlikehedidintghostmeforamonththatweirdassguyhedoneallofthatjustbecauseifoundouthisrealnamebecauseofhisstupidty ...see more

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Mushroom_85544 🇪🇬

I'm justifying why I should cheat. FML.

i find myself thinking about cheating, but when i try to talk myself out of it, I find myself justifying why i should cheat. 1. it would make me happy instead of how miserable i am rn 2. it would make me taste a new woman 3. i would finally know what it feels to be inside a tight hole 4. she would definitely be more fun than mine 5. she would be more into being with me than my wife who is complaining about every breath i take. 6. she would make me interested in sex again after losing my appetite. i try to talk myself out of it but the argument is solid. fml 🤬 i don't need anyone to tell me to be a man or grow up or be responsible. also if you're blunt or not polite, you will be blocked. ...see more

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Apple_52036 🇪🇬

You Don't Need to Solve Everything Today

“Stress has a way of making everything feel heavier than it truly is, pulling your mind in a hundred directions at once. But even in those overwhelming moments, remember that you are not defined by what you’re going through. Take a slow breath and let your thoughts settle. You don’t need to solve everything today. Give yourself permission to pause, to step back, to rest. Strength isn’t only about pushing forward — sometimes it’s in choosing to breathe, reset, and try again with a clearer heart.” ...see more

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