emotional abuse

Watermelon_21128 🇪🇬

2 days ago

Feeling Heartbroken

I come back after one year, I feel so lost for the first time I tried to trust someone and love with no limits then at the end I found that he was the worst choice at all and have all the bad inside and knows nothing about love and abused it ... I won't forgive him at all

Cherry_80972 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Drained

don’t even know what to do anymore. i loved someone who was supposed to be my peace, someone i trusted with my heart and my scars, my depression, and my darkest moments. i thought he would care, that he would be there when i needed him most, but he isn’t. he gets angry, pushes me away, stays cold, a

Hazelnut_79930 🇩🇿 oh baby i was at the same situation i got too sick bcz of him i died inside i got ill mentally until I exploded i told him i will never come back this time he stalked me he did everything literally he begged me he begged my friends to say smth but i was stand girly plz don’t let ur feelings get in control and leave , you will cry so and maybe miss the moments but you’ll know it’s the best choice

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Cheese_81044 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Heartbroken

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my mom want a divorce after being married for 20 yo 
she wanted it from the start and she when she had a chance she did it I'm not sure why but I think my parents both have problems and they can't get along anyway i thought my life will be better after the divorce but (I stayed with my mom ) I thought she was treating us this bad because my dad were stressing her and traumatizing her by his attitude anger issues disrespect but she became more Wild when she was taking care of us all alone always angry always disappointed always complaining and humiliating us she had money but most of the time we don't have food no cleaning my sister clean for her and she didn't allow her to use phone she 15 yo 
and sometimes she complains about seeing her sleeping like my mom work and had 3 other payments but when I complain that she's int taking care of us I became ungrateful sometimes she hide food and when dad give my siblings money for school she took it from them I had so many bad situation with both of them my dad is trying to be good for us and I think she hate us and she's wishing we're not her responsibility 
before divorce I became sick ( depressed ) I stayed at my room for a year and I didn't get any help she took me to therapist but all I see her doing is complaining about my behaviour when I'm sick and she blamed me for so many things and said shit to me okay so that made me hate her and not accept any humiliation or disrespect from her we fought many times and it gets worse and worse until she led hand on me when we're were having an arguments and I hit her back she called her brothers they attacked me ( I'm not saying I'm innocent but I was literally done with her I has anger issues and I heavy heart seeing us lost and sad all of the time and I'm blaming them ) she allowed herself to say that I'm a mistake and I'm a h**r 
like I was raised in an angry environment that's full of hate 
I'm overwhelmed I can't forgive I can't forget I want to leave but people keep blaming me but I'll do what makes me feel happy no matter what even if that means leaving 
anyway I talked a lot what do you think

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Strawberry_79819 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Heartbroken

i married a horrible man who pretended he loved me for a long time .... he hurt me so much in so many ways ( insultes, manipulation , fiancial abuse , isolation , and even physical abuse)... until he finally kicked me out of the house ( i was paying the rent and all bills and i bought all the fourn

Lemon_34495 🇶🇦 no you are mistaken for taking that disicion and you're not crazy for doubting yourself, sometimes we need to hear from someone else specially cause it is not an easy trip to take, hope you are not doing alone, i hope you have enough support to help you through it

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Cherry_73516 🇭🇷

2 months ago

Feeling Irritated

I don't know who to talk to about it. I feel weak and pathetic. My mom has always had anger issues, but I never thought about how she forms narratives. She brought random shit up, popped three separate events into one, mixed up the chronology and now the whole thing sounds way worse than it was. Fun

Cherry_73516 🇭🇷

2 months ago

Feeling Drained

I really don't know anymore. I have a problem with someone. She always nit picks problems. Even tho everything is fine, she'll always find a way to create some. At this point I feel like she just feeds off negativity. She will say she hates being angry but lacks the self awareness of realising that

Avocado_73502 🇪🇬 i feel sorry for you

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Strawberry_65203 🇦🇺

3 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Over the last 12–18 months, I was engaged to a man I deeply loved and had envisioned a future with. But our relationship slowly began to unravel in painful, traumatic ways. It became emotionally damaging, and at times, crossed into abusive territory. Including an incident of physical violence that l

Hazelnut_52786 🇪🇬 Let yourself grieve, but don’t stay in the place that broke you. Surround yourself with people and things that make you feel safe, and take small steps each day toward healing. Your future holds more than this pain—trust that better days will come.

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I have tried everything to hold on. I have communicated, compromised, supported my then fiancé’s dreams, and even justified the harm being done, both to myself and to others because I loved him that much. But instead of my vulnerability being met with accountability or care, I was shut out, criticized, and made to feel like I was the problem.

After returning from a traumatic experience overseas, where I nearly died, I came back changed. Raw, scared, and needing comfort. But my then fiancé told me to “get over it.” That moment stuck with me, and the pain of being emotionally abandoned in my time of need has not gone away.

Even as our relationship became more fractured, I held on. Continuing to defend my then fiancé, even to those who said, “This isn’t okay.” But eventually, my fiancé broke up with me, two weeks ago. And even after ending the engagement, my ex fiancé began sending messages that were accusatory and hurtful. Blaming me for the breakdown of the relationship, accusing me of “talking shit” behind his back, and demanding explanations for things that weren’t true. It became clear that rather than taking responsibility, my ex was more concerned with his own reputation.

In the aftermath, I confided in a close mutual friend. Someone I believed was a neutral and safe place. But this friend broke that trust, sharing vulnerable conversations with my ex fiancé and worsening the tension. That betrayal cut me deeply. It felt like being hurt all over again, like no space was truly safe. So I chose to set a boundary, deciding not to bring this friend when collecting my belongings, and instead asked someone else. A longtime friend and ex-coworker who is a true emotional support, to come with me.

Even with this plan, I still fear how I’ll be perceived. I’m worried I’ll appear “messy,” like the pain of the last few weeks will be visible on my face. Because it has been brutal, being abandoned again, misunderstood again, and made to feel like my trauma is my fault.

I’ve also admitted that in my darkest moments, I’ve questioned whether surviving that traumatic experience overseas was worth it. That maybe it would’ve been easier not to come back. I feel lost. Like everything I thought I could count on has fallen apart. I don’t know what to live for, or how to believe I’m still worthy of love and safety after being hurt so deeply.

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Cherry_25285 🇩🇿

1 year ago

Feeling Lost

i met him 4y ago and I've fallen in love with him since the first date, i thought that we will be together but he doesnt like being in relationships, he wanted us to get engaged but my dad didnt accept cause i was young, so we got stuck in a situationship for 3y, i loved him from the bottom of my he

Hazelnut_22040 🇪🇬 It won't be the last time you'll have anxiety and no one deserves to be stuck in a relationship that will sooner or later consume you.

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Pear_12697 🇪🇬

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

Toxic relationships

Avocado_13457

1 year ago

Feeling Okay 😐

hello, seeking relationship advice all started when i first entered the college,apple (guy1)was very fond of me as a friend..he was so close to me..he loved me secretly without expressing or telling me..while i liked tomato(guy2)and was close to him …apple proposed me and i rejected.he took it pers

Strawberry_4131

1 year ago

Feeling Bad 😞

I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for five years of my life. This abusive relationship harmed my self-esteem a lot. It also affected my exam because, during that time, I was preparing for government exams which I was continuously unsuccessful.

Mushroom_85544 🇪🇬

I'm justifying why I should cheat. FML.

i find myself thinking about cheating, but when i try to talk myself out of it, I find myself justifying why i should cheat. 1. it would make me happy instead of how miserable i am rn 2. it would make me taste a new woman 3. i would finally know what it feels to be inside a tight hole 4. she would definitely be more fun than mine 5. she would be more into being with me than my wife who is complaining about every breath i take. 6. she would make me interested in sex again after losing my appetite. i try to talk myself out of it but the argument is solid. fml 🤬 i don't need anyone to tell me to be a man or grow up or be responsible. also if you're blunt or not polite, you will be blocked. ...see more

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Coffee_60094 🇪🇬

I can't make friends and I'm still lonely at 19

I'm trying to make friends, but I've tried and failed. I haven't been able to make friends, and I'm still lonely until now. I'm 19 years old, in university, and I still don't have any friends. All I'm afraid of is my wedding day, because no one will attend, or my funeral, because no one will know. ...see more

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Cherry_87431 🇩🇿

I hate being talkative and drained from people

for 2 months now , I’m going to university and coming back home alone I pass my day all alone until I get back home , i don’t talk to people anymore and for a while my energy and my mental stability are very stable like so stable, and when I communicate over 3h with other i feel so drained and tired it makes so sick to the point i can’t even describe, sometimes all i want is to have real friends but deep inside I can’t maintain a one friendship, i push people everytime I feel bad but when I talk it’s just that pure side of me apearce and I hate this energy I hate giving them this I haateeeee being nice or talkative ( I’m a very talkative person) btw , once I talk I can’t stop and I hate this bc I can’t control it ...see more

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