family issues

Apple_83267 🇩🇿

4 weeks ago

Feeling Heartbroken

hey, I'm a girl, I only have one big brother, we're a wealthy family, we have like everything, but the problem is my brother, who wants to control my life, check my phone and my personal things, and even hit me with the belt sometimes, when I talked to my parents about it, they didn't really care, s

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Toast_80829 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Drained

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hey ppl am stardust not my real name of course but something closer to being myself 
am a nineteen old person with the mindset of a thirty year old women, I grow up early out immature fase I guess I been trough a lot as a kid 
let's started with how complex my story is 
once I was born by my a biological mother and father who I never knew I was given to an older lady as a baby cuz she couldn't handle taking care of me , to an older lady who never been able to have kids the same lady took my half brother in before I was born we have the same mother but different fathers since I was a kid my current mother preferred my brother over me although we're both not her biological parents she was with someone back then her hasband but no longer after they get divorced my brother was a kid and I was a baby growing up I was terrified of my current mother to do anything wrong or say anything wrong since she had serious mental and anger issues she been trough a lot herself but it wasn't my fault yet I payed the price hard 
now am not saying that she doesn't love me maybe she does but not in a healthy way and sometimes I deeply believe she doesn't like me as a person  she doesn't like the way I dress or act or anything she's not that supportive in anything except my studies and she have high expectations for me all the time and it's draining 
during my phone childhood I spend it trying to satisfy her doing everything to make her proud but at some point I realised no matters how much I did for her she would never chooses me over my brother it was so hurtful slowly I lost trust in her stopped telling her anything about me or myself cuz I was afraid she might use it against me later 
as a kid I even got molested couple of times not once but I was too scared to tell my mother, same thing with getting bullied at school I got hit and made fun of but never told her sometimes duo to her anger issues when i was a kid she used to beat me and say the most hurtful stuff sometimes hit me with glasses and even once she throwed a knive on me i was twelve , she never trusted me with anything and kept making assumptions about me whenever i wan a express myself  guess I never felt safe to share those kind of stuff with her
anyway I grow up to be a messy person my mind is constantly foggy  
lately I gave up on ppl I had one relationship with a guy and it was never genuine from his side but looking around i noticed that most ppl are terrible specially men so I gave up on that idea 
I don't wanna get married ever

although I always dreamt of being a mother but I have to gave up on that for my own safety

I also lack a trust in men because what I been trough and growing up with no one to call father linger deeply and grew to influence me

but I think I lost myself  and I might need therapy so bad but am short on money

I also attempted to suicide  couple of times and even though of ways to do so and listen to that voice in my head couple of times

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Coffee_81760 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Exhausted

to be honest i don’t know where to start, there’s so much i’m feeling so much that is going on… im a young woman im 30 i live in algiers i have a degree in communications i worked for 8 years in different fields and i started my own business few months ago but I can’t work on it because my life isn

Mushroom_52344 🇺🇸

8 months ago

Feeling Alone

I hate how alone I feel even in a room full of people, more specifically my family and realizing that they will never understand me and that they don’t even put in the effort to understand or even ask why I feel and think the way I do.

Jackfruit_51332 🇺🇸 They may be close to you but they do not understand you. Try as much as possible to communicate with them and talk to them and describe to them what you feel. They may not know what is inside you from afar, but soon they will appreciate what you are. Do not despair. Try

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Apple_18394 🇲🇾

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

why does my husband prefer spending time with his closed uncle than his wife(me) & his own daughter at home?

Lemon_17041 🇮🇩

1 year ago

Feeling Bad 😞

Hey, i just want to tell you guys that i've been feeling down lately. I miss my old family when i was a kid. Everything changed about me and my family when i grow up. It's all about My Dad and My Mom. They had a bad relationship. My dad changed everything. He had an affair and he loves their family

Lemon_16947 🇪🇬 I am sorry on behalf of all of them, but do not forget that we are all your friends, we welcome you, we enjoy hearing from you, and we listen to you carefully, and in the Arabic we say: الله لا يعطي اصعب المعارك الا لأقوي جنوده God only gives the hardest battles to the strongest ❤️

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Pear_63699 🇪🇬

Not Me When I Hate Everyone & Get Angry So Easily

I know it's not me when I suddenly hate everyone, and get angry so easily over everything maybeitsbecausehecamebackandistryingtoactlikehedidintghostmeforamonththatweirdassguyhedoneallofthatjustbecauseifoundouthisrealnamebecauseofhisstupidty ...see more

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Apple_52036 🇪🇬

You Don't Need to Solve Everything Today

“Stress has a way of making everything feel heavier than it truly is, pulling your mind in a hundred directions at once. But even in those overwhelming moments, remember that you are not defined by what you’re going through. Take a slow breath and let your thoughts settle. You don’t need to solve everything today. Give yourself permission to pause, to step back, to rest. Strength isn’t only about pushing forward — sometimes it’s in choosing to breathe, reset, and try again with a clearer heart.” ...see more

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Pear_81918 🇩🇿

Going through circles, overthinking everything rn

hey hope ur doing good well im not im going through Circles im overthinking too much I have a lot of family problems extra but I dont really care about them . yes they do effect slowly sometimes I crash out sometimes I cry and that's rarely happens my dad used to hit me and say bad things to me when I was young like 5 till not and im 15 also my grandma she said man don't cry now I cant express my feelings the normal way today I felt soo bad cuz I think everyday that im a useless person I want to be better I want Money to buy clothes and perfume I want to take care of my self and look good its not necessary but the fact that I cant even buy clothes because we don't have money kinda hurts . well I have a lot of clothes but non of them are mine some neighbours and family members I dont have a problem with it actually I like that I get beautiful free clothes but I cant buck what I dont have I also need Money for food cuz I love calisthenics and running and basketball but I only train a little cuz I dont have a reason to u dont even have a reason to live except my mom that would cry if I die she doesn't understand me at all and doesn't help whatsoever but I still love her I also want my own room I dont have brothers I share the room with my 2 sisters I want my personal room to be cool a pc gamer not like my shity pc that can't even run minecraft properly and a calisthenics equipment and a place for my electric stuff I love electronics soo much and robotics I want to learn them soo badly but I cant I dont think because im lazy it's just lack of support no one really care about me I love doing many stuff like playing chess solving rubik's cube (my record is 38seconds :3 ) I have an addiction its gooning I didn't do it for 2 months im kinda proud of my self but not really because I've been doing it for 2 years and watching porn and talking to bitches online I was doing it like 5 to 10 times a day last summer it got to the point that i dont feel bad after doing it I also didn't pray for a wile thats bad I think my addiction did something bad to me idk if I should go to the doctor every time I pee cum comes out I dont even touch my pee pee and it goes out I think my balls work more then normal ppl im not pervert actually I just realised that I also have a crush on a cute short beautiful girl she's kinda weird just like the way I like im obsession with her but sadly she loves another person even tho I see her looking at me a lot in class and talk to me nicely in dm but she loves another guy like I said im an overthinker I always imagine hugging her or aging with her or just talking to her because I never talked to her in class before only in Instagram she knows that she's my crush I told her I told her a little bit of how I think I said that im scared if u get mad at me when I think about us together and a lot of stuff its bad that she doesn't like me but good because we won't be in a haram relationship I have a gf before she's 5 years older she's 20 now she made my life better soo much and now after I broke up with her because I didn't want haram I have a big gap my feelings are fucked I wsnt to be with her soo badly I never met her I never talked to somone near me only online i dont know how to talk im shy my mind is full with stupid thoughts I dont really study it doesn't effect me and my grades I want to get married now that's the only halal way to fill my gap and my lack of love and support I prefer older women probably because they understand and treats me better just like my ex maybe ill have a nother girlfriend if I make sure she will marry me maybe idk anyway if u made it here thx for reading soo much I dont even remember all the things I typed hope u didn't love u and bbye ...see more

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