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Pumpkin_80706 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Meh

Im a girl who didn't believe in love or relationships out of marriage and i always been that way untill this guy came along, he was perfect and matches all my standards and we were willing to make it official and one day he just started searching for reasons and starting problems just to break up a

Carrot_80292 🇩🇿 Sometimes people leave not because you’re hard to love but because they can’t handle your depth Don’t blame yourself Let him be your lesson not your wound Real love doesn’t run it stays through the hard parts 💔✨

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Pineapple_68977 🇪🇬

3 months ago

Feeling Incomplete

Honestly, I’m tired of constantly searching and seeking for a girl to build a relationship with — someone we can rely on each other, go out together, and enjoy life as a couple. Unfortunately, every time I start talking to a girl on social media or dating apps, things go well for the first few days

Strawberry_52383 🇮🇳

7 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

my ex broke up with me , reason = he was feeling mentally suffocated and he couldn’t handle a relationship cz he has to work on himself starting from communication. he broke up with me between my exams which lead to my exams going in the drains . I had a panic attack and I’m just spiraling through

Watermelon_33609 🇹🇳

1 year ago

Feeling Confused

I feel like I am on love with someone.. So I met that girl a month ago and she was nice.. Sadly we didn't talk a lot until she kinda ghosted me and her excuse was annoying... I didn't why she did that know until a week ago when she came to confess and say sorry about the way she treated me, I was s

Mango_33623 🇪🇬 I guess if she doesn't text you for so long means she doesn't care about you or she is just embarrassed. Just let it happen and if she really wants you she would text u and do not make my mistake

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Mango_28521 🇪🇬

1 year ago

Feeling Disappointed

I'm an introvert human and i always prefer to have less friends but close to me and lately i had or maybe still have , IDK but that person had all my trust and was the closest one for me and even made a bet on her that she won't let me down and she even called me best friend and that makes sense bec

Cherry_28404 🇪🇬 m3dash kteer aashan t2dr tnsaha adi lnfsk wa2t w 7wl t3rf hd gaded

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Coconut_21578 🇹🇳

1 year ago

Feeling Confused

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There's this guy named muneer, he's from india, i knew him from ablo ( a social media app more than a dating app) okay, we've been talking, i was always cold to him, sometimes i show him that i care about him, (just for the plot) then, in time, he confessed to me, he said that he liked me,i expected it but i acted like i didn't even knew about it.. I said no, let's be friends, just friends, nothing more.. We kept talking like now for more than 2 years now.. And now, he's getting married in 8days.. And i'm happy for him, but the thing is that i'm afraid that what i did to him is coming back to me with this other guy, named adem, from turkey, we met on azar (a dating app), since february 2022.. We were video calling for like one week maybe, daily, 2hours a day minimum.. It was fun.. He asked me let's video call, i send him that i'm busy with some photos.. And he as well he tells me what he's doing.. After, it was going to fade.. And then, we were just talking in random days and times and that's how it really went.. Till 13 july 2023, i sent him a long message that i loved him, and he said, i love you too, it's always good to have people love me.. And then, we stopped.. On 2nd of junuary 2024, i sent him a happy new year message and then, i told him i got something to say.. And then, he said go ahaid, i'm curious to know.. So i told him that i remember i said that i liked you, but i didn't it was just a crush.. And he said that i thought it was a normal love that anyone can get, not romantically, and i remember that i said i love you too.. And i said no you didn't say that actually, you just said, it's good to have someone who love me, thank you.. And then, i said, for me it's over and for you it never started, and that's totally okay.. And i asked him if he has something to say.. He said, i love you, and you love me too, but i think we should never got a further idea in our head because we're so different persons, and that i' m the only arap girl he enjoyed talking to.. and things like that.. And i reacted 😂 to his message, and said, all i can say is that i liked you despite these things you've mentioned.. And since that we got no contact.. The day before ramadan, i remember we were talking normally, after, i tried to text him to say ramadan kareem, so i double and triple texting him, but he didn't answer, not even see the messages.. Again, on 30april 2024, on his birthday, i tried to send him a happy birthday message, but in vain.. Till that day, i don't know what if he's alive, dead... Oh yeah, he's alive :).. I szw him reacting on an instagram post. Not gonna lie, it was good to see him reacting and active on some of these posts.. At least he's there.. Oh yeah, b1ck in time when i was unable to get over adem, on ramadan, march 2024, i was using another dating app "meeff" As i told you, i'm on a dating app.. There's this korean guy, He liked my profile first and then i liked him back.. We started talking, this took place on march of this year, while we were talking on telegram, i sent him a message on his insta asking him about living in korea, and he was open to talk, he asked if i had a bf or no.. So i said no and i blocked him (talking to him using my fake acc).. After few days maybe, and it was on ramadan, he asked me what we do in this month, i told him, as a muslim, we need to do fasting, he said i'll try it, he litteraly fasts the day after we talked about it.. After few times, when we're talking he said i really like you, i can tell that you're a good person from the way you text me, and i want to be in a relationship with you, (less than a week since we've met).. I told him, we need to get to know each other better and to make sure about our feelings and thoughts.. Etc.. He said let's be in a relationship and after we can get to know each other, we still have time,the most important is that we are in the same page.. Not gonna lie i said okay, two days after maybe, he asked me to let him buy anything for me as a gift for his girlfriend, he said that he's jalous of his friends buying things to their girlfriends and he's unable to do it, he asked me about my adress to send me stuff, i said no, i can't accept anything from anyon.. At the end of the discussion, i told him, to buy them and when he came to tunisia, he can bring them with him.. (still in the month of march).. In some days we talk peacefully, maybe twice, he didn't send me a text for a day.. And that hurts me.. So i decided to talk to him whe he's back, and he said i got a bad wifi and internet connection.. So, okay i forgave him and said he'q going to change his place of work for better internet.. (on april), he asked me to buy  an iTunes cause it's not available in his city, card because he nees it in his work.. I told him okay, i'll look for it, he thanks me, after i told him i didn't get one, i can get it in the mall, he said, can't you go buy it for me ? I said no, it's 600km away.. After some time, i asked him what happened with the iTunes, he said i got it, one of my friends from usa has bought it for me.. I said thanks god, it's been solved.. Oh yeah, i didn't tell you about this, at first, he said i want to try a long distance relationship, and get a foreigner girlfriend.. After, i asked him if he really love me, or he's with me just because he wants to try a long distance relationship.. He said not for that.. I genuinely love you, why can't you believe me ? After a few hours, he texted me saying that he's making plans to visit , my country, just to show how serious he is, bringing me the gifts he already bought for me and that he said he's willing to meet my family and he's planning to stay for a month.. I was happy, not gonna lie, but at the same time, i was afraid.. Because i can't trust him.. The day after, i told him that i talked with my sister about you, he was like wow, and what did she said, i told him, she was like how can you trust him ? He just wanted to experience a long distance relationship, he said it directly.. He was angry, and said and what do you think ? I said we need to have more time, we need to make sure what we think and what we really want.. He said, okay, i'll let you manage everything.. We stayed like for a day without talking, he was angry not gonna lie.. I said sorry to him for making him feel upset or frustrated.. And then, we were okay.. Days goes by, he stoped texting me for like 2days maybe.. And then he was like hi baby😭.. And i was like.. Oh look who's back ! It's you!.. He saisd, sorry i got some problems at my work.. He lost his job and his company's money.. And i don't know what to do.. I started to support him psychologically, he said i appreciate your presence, after he said i want to to afford me some money, i need you and i know that it's my job as a boyfriend to afford the money for his girlfriend not the inverse.. I told him that i can't because i don't have the much amount of money you need.. He said it's okay for now, you just can give me whatever and i won't forget your help.. I said no i can't give you the money i get from my family.. I want to be trustworthy.. And here we started to get an argument he said you always do what your family say, if they say we have to break up, you'll break up with me.. You need to do things for your love.. And i said, if it's my money, i'll do it.. But now, i don't have my money, my personal money, so it's not mine and i can't give it to anyone else, not only you, anyone.. And then we broke up, he said, when you end speaking, get me out of your DMs.. and i didn't, so we did the after, he get me out of his DMs. (end of the story, 18 april, 2024) [i can't believe i forgot the day we already started talking]

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Lemon_4143

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

During my breakup, I went through an emotional collapse. I told my boyfriend about a previous instance of domestic violence. He said he was fine with it but then he started avoiding me. He made me question

Moon_87762 🇭🇺

Overthinking my friend's depression, can't sleep

I couldn't sleep and now i'm gonna sleep less then 3hours. I started overthinking so badly about losing my friend. She has very bad depression and i also don't have the best mental health and it just pulls me, my energy down so bad, i'm so worried and i'm the type of person that i have to help, save them from bad and the fact that i can't makes me go mad. Ever since i befriended her and she started to mean so much to me i started to fear she does something bad to herself, now that she tires to unalive herself and it drives me crazy overthinking it all, constantly thinking about her trying to attempt. I don't fully know ab these kind of things as i know her for 10month and i'm just probably very much overthinking it all. I really care about her and all i want is to help her even a little bit where i can(even tho i make the worst decisions) and i also hate(but somewhere also can understand) the fact that she lies to me about things like if i ask her about her health and stuff and it just doesn't help my trust issues, bc of these i really don't trust her and just overthink more, like when i ask her something i assume her answer is a lie. I'm also at bad at some things but i just can't get myself to tell her how i really feel and what bothers me and stuff:/ I don't consider myself depressed but i also had suicidal toughts and stuff and it came back(i couldn't get myself to do it tho i think) ever since i met her, tho i can't blame her as i'm very glad i met her, i just wish she had a better life that she deserves. *sorry if it's too weird or childish os something and also sorry for my bad english* ...see more

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Cherry_87431 🇩🇿

I hate being talkative and drained from people

for 2 months now , I’m going to university and coming back home alone I pass my day all alone until I get back home , i don’t talk to people anymore and for a while my energy and my mental stability are very stable like so stable, and when I communicate over 3h with other i feel so drained and tired it makes so sick to the point i can’t even describe, sometimes all i want is to have real friends but deep inside I can’t maintain a one friendship, i push people everytime I feel bad but when I talk it’s just that pure side of me apearce and I hate this energy I hate giving them this I haateeeee being nice or talkative ( I’m a very talkative person) btw , once I talk I can’t stop and I hate this bc I can’t control it ...see more

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Marshmallow_86970 🇿🇦

I'm just tired of everything. Life is killing me.

I am just tired of everything. I wish that I could have a better life, but life is killing me from the inside. I don't know how to tell people that I don't like them. I don't know how to accept help, or ask for it. I don't know how to say sorry by actually meaning it. I'm done with everything. I am just wishing that life could get better. ...see more

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