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I’m in a relationship with someone I love deeply. He is kind, caring, and sends me very sweet messages, full of promises about our future, marriage, and happiness together. His words make me feel loved and committed to him.
The problem is that he works a physically demanding job washing cars. He often can’t respond to my messages immediately because he’s busy, tired, or needs rest. I’ve been trying to accept this, but sometimes I see him active on social media or commenting on videos, and it makes me feel ignored and hurt.
I end up sending angry messages expressing my frustration, and then later I regret them because I know I might have overreacted. I feel torn between my love for him, my desire to be understanding, and my hurt from feeling like I’m not a priority.
I want to decide whether to continue this relationship, but I feel stuck because his actions sometimes hurt me, even though I know he has good intentions and I love the person he is
like he always has a good reason for not texting like sickness prayer (these days to so hard for me cuz he's not here for me )
what do you think??????

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