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Moon_79825 🇩🇿

1 week ago

Feeling Stupid

I realized I was looking for love in the wrong people. I always gave more than I received. I thought I wanted to become the best version of myself for someone who never loved me back. But for nine years I kept trying. I thought for a moment...Why! Why would I do this for this person? I decided that

Lemon_82700 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Meh

I started realizing that life isn't that bad when i learnt how u deal with trauma, situations and attachment. • Once u turn off the caring button and u start being busy over stuff that are more important, u'll forget other stuff that are not. • once u realize that ppl are perspectives, as u can me

Chilli_80819 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Bored

It doesn't matter how many mistakes you make, what matters is that you learn from the mistake and take a lesson from it to change your life. Advice from someone who lived in error for a long time

Pumpkin_80603 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Confused

I’m boy [23]. After spending about 30 minutes scrolling through this app, I noticed that almost every post seems to be about relationships love stories, heartbreaks, dating experiences, and all that. It made me stop and think about myself. I’ve never been in a relationship, and to be honest, I’ve n

Carrot_80292 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Proud

They made me doubt myself silence my voice and hide my feelings But I faced the pain healed and rose stronger than they ever expected They hurt me in ways they’ll never understand but I chose to heal instead of hate I found peace in forgiving and strength in loving myself❤️‍🩹

Carrot_80292 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Emotional

I wasn’t always like this there was a time when I used to give too much my time my energy my heart to people who didn’t value it i wanted to make everyone happy even if it meant losing myself a little more each time i used to stay quiet when things hurt me, pretending I was fine because I thought b

Apple_57254 🇪🇬

2 months ago

Feeling Emotional

Carrot_71203 🇪🇬 I wish you success

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i know that this is not the place for what I'm about to share but well I dont have other options so if you're gonna judge or give religious advice don't read this or comment on it skipping a post is an option and i know that this is not for everyone and probably no one here well get it but anyway. 
the d/s dynamic i was in  just ended and honestly it hurts because the connection was good there was chemistry and all of it was good k**k or not. it ended in a respectful way and on good terms but I'm just gonna miss it, every part of it the care the safety the play the mundane talks and interactions the jokes the structure the respect and the things I've learned which I'm still gonna do in honour of it. i was fulfilled, calm and happy in a way i never was before i felt belonging and not being seen as too much or too little for the first time and i experienced a lot of personal growth in not a very long time and i will forever be beyond grateful. and as much as I'm hurt I'm a million more times  happy for them, they deserve happiness and all the best and from the bottom of my heart i wish them everything good in life and all the peace and joy there is however deep down i just wanted to be part of it. but im glad i was for at least a while and i hope they remember me and smile♡ 
it was so good and safe and comfortable to the point i don't even want to get into something else even in the long term, i won't do anything like this right now because that's gonna be a bad coping mechanism and i don't even want to. 
I'll keep hanging onto the good memories and honouring it by continuing the self care and growth road they put me on the begging of and have my own healing journey they helped me with and on very hard days i have my physical reminder that tells me it was real, but honestly having that physical reminder hurts so much but 'look at the bright side'.
i keep having a lot of what if thoughts but maybe if any of those thoughts were reality things might have not been the way they were and honestly i won't change a thing about what it♡
and i seriously wish that i was good to them too because they deserve nothing but good so i hope i was that♡
I'll try to manage the gap that this left and fill it with something that will make me proud and happy♡ it might not be for them but it's for me, because of them♡ 
if anyone read this far and if anyone cares please wish them all the best♡

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Lemon_47472 🇹🇳

11 months ago

Feeling Lost

It's been more than a year now and I literally still at the exact same place, all my life I've always developed myself but his year or so, I kinda stopped. You see, I know exactly what I want to do and I know exactly how to achieve that, but the problem is that I can't find the motivation nor the di

Lemon_47472 🇹🇳

1 year ago

Feeling Worried

Orange_19116 🇦🇷

1 year ago

Feeling Confused

today i learned about the term "toxic shame" and i don't know what to do with this information tbh lol. but i guess this is something

Banana_18839 🇮🇳

1 year ago

Feeling Exhausted

i feel lost my skill

Pear_12205 🇪🇬

1 year ago

Feeling Okay 😐

to whom do i owe the biggest apolgy !, myself i guess

Pineapple_15711 🇪🇬

1 year ago

Feeling Okay 😐

how to make yourself a better person?

Cherry_13982 🇸🇦

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

And when I'm back to my hometown, I feel it Another version of me

Tomato_4684 🇪🇬

1 year ago

Feeling Good 😁

I want to try something new

Pistachio_78778 🇩🇿

Lost in a deep hole, no friends, no job. Idk what to do.

I'm lost, it's like I am in this deep hole that i can not get out of.. recently lost all my friends at once then the next day my job was taken away from me for literally no reason at all... idk what to do in this period of time ☹️ ...see more

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Pineapple_87651 🇩🇿

My aunt died and I didn't cry. Her wish was to die.

3 days ago my aunt died .i loved her with every inch of my soul ,with all her bad habits and acts .i loved her fr.but the day she was pronounced dead .i didn't even feel the usual sadness of loosing a loved once .i didn't cry din't care to cry or to express any sad feeling cause i had none .maybe cause i was so close to her and she always repeated one wish " i wish to die " .i hope where she is .she's in peace. ...see more

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Mango_74726 🇪🇬

I'm not okay

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