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Avocado_87926 🇮🇹

2 weeks ago

Feeling Drained

i just knew from my ex (we still friends) that before me he likes my best friend. im so confuse so panicking becouse he say that if he feel somethung for her is so down in a corner of his heart. but ut feel so strange now that i know. maybe i still have feel something idk. but i feel sick of this si

Coffee_56100 🇪🇬 hi

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Biscuit_87855 🇵🇪

2 weeks ago

Feeling Drained

Hey guys, I need some advice. I met a guy, everything was going well, he gave me things and all, but we weren't anything serious. On Halloween, things got messed up, first on his end and then on mine, and we both screwed up. Now I miss him a lot and I've tried talking to him, but it always ends in n

Strawberry_84018 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Confused

i wanna ask men something why when a girl gives u all u want you leave her like what you actually want how we knw if you really do love us every single relationship even if i do my best they leave for the ex who ghosted or cheated on em just why

Cheese_81044 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Confused

when a man is caring kind do what U want and loves me and always there for and support me but there is one thing he has anger issues he always apologise first but like I'm not easy I have anger issues too and I keep fighting until he starts to fight back like who doesn't have anger issues these days

Cherry_80972 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Confused

Express your Feeling anonymously

the way i just wanna kms and end it , but everything seems hard to do , i am tired i have health problems , cevere depression and anxiety , also trauma like a lot of trauma that keeps ruinin my life even tho i'm tryin to change
my only escape was my boyfriend and he is or he claims to be "metfehem" and he understands my case my anger issues my depression my health issues my loneliness and he always tried to be here for me but when i'm at my lowest and start hurting my self he starts being selfish he has so much ego and he always realizes what he've done late and thr problem is that i'm too attached bc he was my bestfriend for 5 years and we're gonna be officialy together for 1 year tomorrow and i'm so sad i wanted to celebrate it with him yes he does like gifts etc small attentions the only problem is whebever i feel something or i'm at my lowest i never find him he says that he cannot control anger and that he has a problems with feelings but the thing tht i feel thag he jst doesnt love me ?
i can't get over the fact that he left me alone and he slept many times and i kept waitin for him crying and self harming my body i suffered too much but whenever he realizes he does it too late and he cries to me and say sorry he even start hittin himself to the point where i believe that he really loves me and that he didn't do that on ourpose
please i need advices what do you think of behaviour do you think he loves me and is it normal to love someone but you cannot control your anger to the point that you can drop him? i am at my lowest and i've always been and i never dropped him but he can drop me at anyxmomebt and everything we talk after the problem he says i swear mashi bl3ani and wlh i love you i'll do my best and he even cried
he went through a lot i know that and that's what keepin  and givin me patience to stay with him but it's tll much
why doesn't he think the same
why do i feel that he's fakin his emotiobs
even if he czn't let me go
please i need help i need explanations
i feel lonely
he says i zone it and his past trauma made him kinda "cold hearted"and  he doesbt feel fear

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Orange_80993 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Guys, I really need to talk about my story. I’ve been with someone for more than a year. At first, he was amazing with me — he loved me so much, and I loved him too. But with time, he started to change, just like people usually do. He began to show me his real side. The way he talks to me changed a

Blueberry_81034 🇩🇿 he doing drugs.

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Mango_80216 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Drained

I having a hard time understanding what I want , I was married and had 2 beautiful kids, but after the divorce I'm afraid of man, after 3 years of my divorce I met a handsome and really sweet man, a man like my father, sweet caring , and amazing but I feel like he is very childish not because of th

Apple_80217 🇪🇬 I understand what you’re going through. But he’s not ready for a serious relationship. If you stay with him, you’ll be the one paying for everything later.

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Cherry_73516 🇭🇷

3 months ago

Feeling Stupid

Do I have anger issues? It bothers the shit out of me when my boyfriend refuses to think or likes to oversimplify stuff. I clearly have issues because it's keeping me up right now. Dude, why are you telling me what to do with the hobbie that I've been doing for years. Yeah, your way is simpler but t

Corn_63629 🇪🇬 Don't justify... Just clarify ✨

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Avocado_61070 🇺🇸

5 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Orange_40211 🇲🇦 hey..I’ve been through something similar, so I really feel what you're going through. It’s not easy at all, but I’ve learned that sometimes life removes people from our path so we can find ourselves again..Focusing on myself..my peace, growth, and the little things that make me happy..helped me slowly heal. Letting go doesn’t mean forgetting; it just means choosing yourself and your peace..

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hey everyone, I dont believe my situation is common, that's why I'm writing this just to here everyone's opinion.
i have been in a 2 year relation with a girl that I loved the most, I gave her everything I could, we are both 20, but the problem, is that I'm a us citizen and she's not. 
after trump got to office, and ice started their deportation activities, her dad decided to go back to his country cus he's so tired of all those situations, and low payment jobs.
Basically she'll stay alone, that's why, her dad and other people adviced her to marry someone else just as a business for papers.
I'm 20, not stable financially and I dont meet the financial requirements to give my spouse papers.
So, who decided to marry her? A friend from her job offered that. He started flirting with her, calling her love, and one day told her idc about your bf, she let him be, cus he is the only option. Everything was cool until her alpastor (pastor/priest) told her that if we dont take a step back from our relationship, the government will discover that everything is fake and it will be bad. 
Anyways I understood, eventhough it was hard. just a day after our breakup, that guy told her that he likes her, she felt disappointed but let it go, between those time, they opened so much to each others, started going out, he go to her house daily and spend time with her family, everything was just aa friends to her, but he reached a point that the guy talked to her sexually and tried to kiss her.
Here, she decided to stop everything, with an afraidness of being deported, so she kept him as a friend and told me, maybe she likes him, she doesn't know, she's confused, but it doesn’t matter cus she loves and it's different. 
Yes it did hurt me and all, but psychologically, there was explanations to her actions, and he was only a distraction nothing else. 
two days ago, her pastor called her again, and told her, if she doesn't do the process, he saw that she'll hey deported, and she has to let me go, and if I wanna stay, it has to only be a business.

so now, I'm just letting her go, trying to live my life just as a friend with her, but it really burns and costing me pain.

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Chocolate_52578 🇪🇬

7 months ago

Feeling Confused

if I was in a relationship with a guy and I was clear with him in all my family’s demands and now he’s telling me that he can’t afford any of this what should I do ?? wait for him to make the money as his family won’t help him or should I leave as time is really running and I’m a girl I really d

Broccoli_50707 🇪🇬

9 months ago

Feeling Alone

i really don’t know what happened to us these last days every time we saw each others we don’t stop fighting although we have been missing each others.. I don’t know what to do for that really

Biscuit_51019 🇧🇦

11 months ago

Feeling Confused

Hi everyone. Asking for advice again. I fell in love with a guy that goes to my school. we are the same grade. At first we were talking and flirting. He was so shy and nervous. Then I found out he said he is not in love with me and he is not looking for a relationship now. He confirmed it. I unadde

Kiwi_48159 🇪🇬 just ignore him and focus on your dream without locking fo partner the successful girl is more attractive for everyone 💗💪

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French Fries_34069 🇹🇳

1 year ago

Feeling Tired

okkk I'm in relationship with someone i really love. and I'm sure he loves me too but he don't like talk about problems and i want a romantic relationship but i don't know how to tell himm any help?

Banana_32850 🇺🇸

1 year ago

Feeling Tired

I’m in a tumultuous relationship with a woman who is 15 years younger than me. We initially started as friends with benefits, but our relationship evolved into something more. We developed feelings for each other, and she became increasingly jealous. She demanded that I choose between her and my wif

Strawberry_30302 🇪🇬 I don't know what to tell you but this is considered a big betrayal of your wife if you don't love her leave her alone but think about your children first because they will be destroyed because of you

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Sugar_21815 🇪🇬

Why You Did That to Me? You Really Hurt Me.

i still know your birthday and your mother's favourite song.🥀 why u did that to me!? Whyyyyy Whyy you really hurt me enough I don't know but you were so mean why why you did that to me I'm losing my control you broke me first don't come back and ask me again ...see more

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Pistachio_78778 🇩🇿

Lost in a deep hole, no friends, no job. Idk what to do.

I'm lost, it's like I am in this deep hole that i can not get out of.. recently lost all my friends at once then the next day my job was taken away from me for literally no reason at all... idk what to do in this period of time ☹️ ...see more

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Pineapple_87651 🇩🇿

My aunt died and I didn't cry. Her wish was to die.

3 days ago my aunt died .i loved her with every inch of my soul ,with all her bad habits and acts .i loved her fr.but the day she was pronounced dead .i didn't even feel the usual sadness of loosing a loved once .i didn't cry din't care to cry or to express any sad feeling cause i had none .maybe cause i was so close to her and she always repeated one wish " i wish to die " .i hope where she is .she's in peace. ...see more

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