self doubt

Lemon_81103 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Tired

hey I'm an introvert I never had a gf 2 years ago I decided to change this so start contacting and approaching girls more I tried every trick in the book nothing worked (btw I'm tall handsome and dress well plus I'm beeing respectful it's not like I'm harassing them ) so these repeated failures mad

Marshmallow_51920 🇯🇴

6 months ago

Feeling Alone

I really really wish I had a boyfriend. sometimes it feels like it’s impossible to love me. like I’m not enough, not pretty enough not smart enough, not fun enough, not good enough. I wish I was anybody else.

Waffle_52564 🇺🇸

6 months ago

Feeling Confused

Confused, uncertain, and unemotional. I have no emotional attachment to humans, I don't seek interactions anymore, I'm actually only here because I had a long conversation with Copilot. I find solace in writing, building stories and worlds to escape something I don't even know what it is. I like to

Chocolate_51290 🇪🇬

10 months ago

Feeling Annoyed

Really felling bad f myself, all the time i am trying to fix me but still faliin in the same shit , i acknowledge my fault and put some ways to avoid doing that and it's the same cycle over and over , why we being like this , weak and makes mistakes, when we will be unmistakable,pure , perfect like

Marshmallow_46399 🇯🇴

11 months ago

Feeling Meh

sometimes I feel like being happy is wrong, like if I get a 36 out of 40 in the exam and I’m happy about it it makes me feel like I’m stupid or like I’m not doing enough maybe? am I the only person who feels that way? I feel like I should be unhappy about things I got to seem like a better person

Mango_30553 🇲🇦

11 months ago

Feeling Confused

have you ever felt a strong desire to be friends with someone? i think my classmate is very cool and i really want to be friends with her but i don't know how to do that, she has many friends already why would she be intrested in being friends with me?

Avocado_44555 🇲🇦

11 months ago

Feeling Stupid

im soooooo frustrated, 😣 , i just had the worst job interview of my life, for my dream job 😭, i had the answers for alllllllll the questions but my fking memory decided to not work today, whyyyyyyyy, i cant even value and sell my self, how could they value me 😭😭😭😭😭😪

Sugar_35854 🇲🇦

1 year ago

Feeling Angry

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everyone things they are deep including myself nowadays and this is very annoying , 
everyone is thinking they are deeper than others. 
I'm loosing myself in this and confused with the existence of opposite sides, tired of listening to different parts of myself that I'm calling soul , psyche , body ...is even this distinction real or we just made this up with a bunch of people which makes it more real.
I was developing curiosity over judgement but my constant exposure to people makes me forget my values
(And I'm aware it is actually an opportunity to sharpen and understand the nuances of every value I'm choosing but I feel upset because why the hell I'm choosing this path why the hell I'm choosing more responsibility why the fuck I'm trying to build values , why the fuck I'm trying my best to heal and to be an adult to finally deal with a bunch of babies)
I don't care that my writing seems arrogant, cocky lacking humbleness because I'm upset , this is part of being authentic and real is being brave enough to show your truth as it is RAW and savage (I figured that out while I was building the value of authenticity and honesty that needs courage and bravery by their side with letting go the need to be liked or loved or whatever which actually lead to something much better appreciating/loving/respecting yourself , also there is another angle the trade off thing being able to see everything as a trade off you wanna be liked by others? You may give up liking yourself in the process or you can go the other way and of course I'll always choose the other way )
 I know deep down we actually don't know anything we just have the illusion of knowing because we can't handle uncertainty, we can't accept the fact that we have no idea what the fuck is going on we believe in spirituality, religion, science as something solid and accurate and we forget we are just guessing we just trying to make sense of things that doesn't make sense
We forget If something is meaningless or meaningful is just our choice we choose what's meaningful for us can be meaningless to others and we can't handle that we forget what we choose can be unchosen by others 
What I'm expressing now feels real accurate and permanent but it's not 
What is real is silence is nothingess is uncertainty is observation without interpretation

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Mushroom_19052 🇵🇭

1 year ago

Feeling Drained

I'm not a dumb person, I'm actually smart (i graduated with honors) so i decided to take more step into it, i asked to study in a private school. Because of my achievements my tuition for one of the most known private school in my city gave a huge discount, me and my family are happy about that so t

Grape_18845 🇿🇲

1 year ago

Feeling Concerned

I feel like am alone, almost all the time. And when I do express myself, mostly in text messages in group chats, I feel ignored because no one responds to what I say. It's an awful feeling to the point it makes me feel maybe I said something wrong, or I didn't say it right...

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Banana_18839 🇮🇳

1 year ago

Feeling Exhausted

i feel lost my skill

Banana_18839 🇮🇳

1 year ago

Feeling Cool

i am feeling without confidence feeling depressed

Avocado_13852

1 year ago

Feeling Bad 😞

sometimes I feel that the all hate me.... I really don't know what should I do

Apple_13601

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

Feeling so low about myself. critical about my looks. Low in self confidence...all because of the limerance I had for a guy. And the end result is , my confidence has shattered down. :'(

Coconut_13568 🇪🇬

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

I'm lost in my feelings. I don't know what I want. Every time I slip into the same position

Mushroom_85544 🇪🇬

I'm justifying why I should cheat. FML.

i find myself thinking about cheating, but when i try to talk myself out of it, I find myself justifying why i should cheat. 1. it would make me happy instead of how miserable i am rn 2. it would make me taste a new woman 3. i would finally know what it feels to be inside a tight hole 4. she would definitely be more fun than mine 5. she would be more into being with me than my wife who is complaining about every breath i take. 6. she would make me interested in sex again after losing my appetite. i try to talk myself out of it but the argument is solid. fml 🤬 i don't need anyone to tell me to be a man or grow up or be responsible. also if you're blunt or not polite, you will be blocked. ...see more

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Apple_52036 🇪🇬

You Don't Need to Solve Everything Today

“Stress has a way of making everything feel heavier than it truly is, pulling your mind in a hundred directions at once. But even in those overwhelming moments, remember that you are not defined by what you’re going through. Take a slow breath and let your thoughts settle. You don’t need to solve everything today. Give yourself permission to pause, to step back, to rest. Strength isn’t only about pushing forward — sometimes it’s in choosing to breathe, reset, and try again with a clearer heart.” ...see more

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Pear_81918 🇩🇿

Going through circles, overthinking everything rn

hey hope ur doing good well im not im going through Circles im overthinking too much I have a lot of family problems extra but I dont really care about them . yes they do effect slowly sometimes I crash out sometimes I cry and that's rarely happens my dad used to hit me and say bad things to me when I was young like 5 till not and im 15 also my grandma she said man don't cry now I cant express my feelings the normal way today I felt soo bad cuz I think everyday that im a useless person I want to be better I want Money to buy clothes and perfume I want to take care of my self and look good its not necessary but the fact that I cant even buy clothes because we don't have money kinda hurts . well I have a lot of clothes but non of them are mine some neighbours and family members I dont have a problem with it actually I like that I get beautiful free clothes but I cant buck what I dont have I also need Money for food cuz I love calisthenics and running and basketball but I only train a little cuz I dont have a reason to u dont even have a reason to live except my mom that would cry if I die she doesn't understand me at all and doesn't help whatsoever but I still love her I also want my own room I dont have brothers I share the room with my 2 sisters I want my personal room to be cool a pc gamer not like my shity pc that can't even run minecraft properly and a calisthenics equipment and a place for my electric stuff I love electronics soo much and robotics I want to learn them soo badly but I cant I dont think because im lazy it's just lack of support no one really care about me I love doing many stuff like playing chess solving rubik's cube (my record is 38seconds :3 ) I have an addiction its gooning I didn't do it for 2 months im kinda proud of my self but not really because I've been doing it for 2 years and watching porn and talking to bitches online I was doing it like 5 to 10 times a day last summer it got to the point that i dont feel bad after doing it I also didn't pray for a wile thats bad I think my addiction did something bad to me idk if I should go to the doctor every time I pee cum comes out I dont even touch my pee pee and it goes out I think my balls work more then normal ppl im not pervert actually I just realised that I also have a crush on a cute short beautiful girl she's kinda weird just like the way I like im obsession with her but sadly she loves another person even tho I see her looking at me a lot in class and talk to me nicely in dm but she loves another guy like I said im an overthinker I always imagine hugging her or aging with her or just talking to her because I never talked to her in class before only in Instagram she knows that she's my crush I told her I told her a little bit of how I think I said that im scared if u get mad at me when I think about us together and a lot of stuff its bad that she doesn't like me but good because we won't be in a haram relationship I have a gf before she's 5 years older she's 20 now she made my life better soo much and now after I broke up with her because I didn't want haram I have a big gap my feelings are fucked I wsnt to be with her soo badly I never met her I never talked to somone near me only online i dont know how to talk im shy my mind is full with stupid thoughts I dont really study it doesn't effect me and my grades I want to get married now that's the only halal way to fill my gap and my lack of love and support I prefer older women probably because they understand and treats me better just like my ex maybe ill have a nother girlfriend if I make sure she will marry me maybe idk anyway if u made it here thx for reading soo much I dont even remember all the things I typed hope u didn't love u and bbye ...see more

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