boundaries

Understand that not everyone is obligated to be with you in your bad times it's a matter of choice But recently I suffered from something very bad for months and in the end I discovered that those closest to me didn't believe I was really suffering and thought I was trying to get attention Everyone I thought was on my side was just putting on an act in reality they were merely going along with me This made me doubt myself and my mental abilities I started to wonder if they were right what was happening to me was frequent and seemed illogical Perhaps I was imagining things and this increased the danger around me because I stopped taking precautions I completely understand that this kind of thinking came about to ease the shock in their minds and so they wouldn't have to take responsibility for anything This is their right they are not obligated to do so in the end Now that things have calmed down in my life I want to treat them normally but I just feel disgusted by them I can't talk to them or sit with them without getting on my nerves Literally whenever I'm on a phone call with someone or in a gathering I feel sick I thought about cutting them off but they are family I will have to see them on every occasion Among them are my siblings who live with me I try to set boundaries with them but even that's difficult because we're usually all very close I don't want to take out my anger on them because of what happened It's true they made many mistakes but my feelings towards them are exaggerated

Well, throughout my life, I have God, then my family, and then my friends. I have three close friends, and everything started well—a normal friendship. I'm naturally someone who sets high boundaries and doesn't let anyone into my life easily, and I don't trust anyone, but I trusted these three. To be honest, they have charming personalities. Let's give them names so we can talk more easily. We have Nava, who plays the funny, smart, and wonderful role; we have Mana, who plays the smart and well-intentioned role; and we have Anna, who has a difficult and complicated personality, but in my opinion, she's mature. I liked them all, but just yesterday I discovered that Nava is full of jealousy and only gives me a good face, which I expected anyway. As for Mana, she's the one who shocked me Well, throughout my life, I have my Lord, then my family, and then my friends. I have three close friends, and everything started well—a normal friendship. I'm naturally someone who sets high boundaries and doesn't let anyone into my life easily, and I don't trust anyone, but I trusted these three. To be honest, they have charming personalities. Let's give them names so we can talk more easily. We have Nava, who plays the funny, smart, and wonderful role; we have Mana, who plays the smart and well-intentioned role; and we have Anna, who has a difficult and complicated personality, but in my opinion, she's mature. I liked them all, but just yesterday I discovered that Nava is full of jealousy and only gives me a good face, which I expected anyway. As for Mana, she's the one who shocked me I never expected to discover she was a bad person, or perhaps even worse. At least Nava's evil was somewhat apparent, unlike Mana's, which I never anticipated. As for Anna, I didn't like her at first, but then I got to know her. She doesn't play roles like the others; she doesn't pretend to be funny or clever or anything else. She's simply herself. In the end, I discovered that she has the best intentions, despite her strangeness. I really need a way to get rid of Nava and Mana without major problems or conflicts. I'm not looking for a way to get Anna on my side, but I wish I could save her from them because, believe me, they are monsters who will devour her at the first opportunity, I'm sure of it. I don't want to ruin things; I hate ending relationships with conflict or excessive talk. So, if anyone has a way to set more boundaries for Nava and Mana and try to make Anna aware of what's happening around her without causing a disaster, please let me know.

I have a problem with someone I know it's a guy from my class he's the shy very insecure type we started talking months ago and he's so attached to me idk how to describe it but when I stop going to school he stop going to school too he tries to be with me everyone he literally has no friends so he's following me everywhere he started paying for a lot of things whenever I mention something he buys it to me at first I liked it but then people started wondering what are we that's why I started hating the way he's so attached to mei mean I love friendships but not in that way I tried everything to push him away I started being mean and distant but he keeps clinging even more I hate it but I don't wanna hurt his feelings he's so shy so insecure so alone I think he has psychological troubles or smthn he's with me all the time but I don't even like him I'm sorry but I don't find him attractive or anything that's why I get man when people in school assume that we're a couple he doesn't even have the courage to confess his feelings to me one time he said he loves me I was mad at him then when he saw my reaction he said he's just joking pff I don't wanna hurt him but I don't like people seeing me with him

Is it normal that your colleagues asks a lot of questions about ur private life they talk about their private life private relationship it's exhausting 💔 and because all of this non jobs discussion i go home exhausted with headache always Gen Z problems 🫠