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Cheese_81044 🇩🇿

3 weeks ago

Feeling Alone

I'm living with my dad and brother after the divorce of my parents and I have no life except the University idk what should I do to feel alive and I'm depressed I can't do anything I don't know what to do with my life all the time I'm alone in my room empty and I fought with all of my family my mom

Waffle_82612 🇩🇿 try to hang out with ur self going to coffee shops and try to go to the gym and reading books listening to podcasts try to love what u have try to enjoy cooking and cleaning tho try to be busy with ur studies so u can’t think about ur loneliness try to be better u so they can’t hurt u be closer to god if u were Muslim go the mosque some time just to get the time full be the mom u wish have

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Cheese_81044 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Heartbroken

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my mom want a divorce after being married for 20 yo 
she wanted it from the start and she when she had a chance she did it I'm not sure why but I think my parents both have problems and they can't get along anyway i thought my life will be better after the divorce but (I stayed with my mom ) I thought she was treating us this bad because my dad were stressing her and traumatizing her by his attitude anger issues disrespect but she became more Wild when she was taking care of us all alone always angry always disappointed always complaining and humiliating us she had money but most of the time we don't have food no cleaning my sister clean for her and she didn't allow her to use phone she 15 yo 
and sometimes she complains about seeing her sleeping like my mom work and had 3 other payments but when I complain that she's int taking care of us I became ungrateful sometimes she hide food and when dad give my siblings money for school she took it from them I had so many bad situation with both of them my dad is trying to be good for us and I think she hate us and she's wishing we're not her responsibility 
before divorce I became sick ( depressed ) I stayed at my room for a year and I didn't get any help she took me to therapist but all I see her doing is complaining about my behaviour when I'm sick and she blamed me for so many things and said shit to me okay so that made me hate her and not accept any humiliation or disrespect from her we fought many times and it gets worse and worse until she led hand on me when we're were having an arguments and I hit her back she called her brothers they attacked me ( I'm not saying I'm innocent but I was literally done with her I has anger issues and I heavy heart seeing us lost and sad all of the time and I'm blaming them ) she allowed herself to say that I'm a mistake and I'm a h**r 
like I was raised in an angry environment that's full of hate 
I'm overwhelmed I can't forgive I can't forget I want to leave but people keep blaming me but I'll do what makes me feel happy no matter what even if that means leaving 
anyway I talked a lot what do you think

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Strawberry_79819 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Heartbroken

i married a horrible man who pretended he loved me for a long time .... he hurt me so much in so many ways ( insultes, manipulation , fiancial abuse , isolation , and even physical abuse)... until he finally kicked me out of the house ( i was paying the rent and all bills and i bought all the fourn

Lemon_34495 🇶🇦 no you are mistaken for taking that disicion and you're not crazy for doubting yourself, sometimes we need to hear from someone else specially cause it is not an easy trip to take, hope you are not doing alone, i hope you have enough support to help you through it

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Avocado_52276 🇮🇳

8 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Been Married for 5 years. He was jobless and I taken care of all his needs for five years. Been betrayed in many ways throughout the journey and still I sticked with him. But later when I found out that he is involved with another women also, that was the breaking point. And I applied for divorce, s

Mushroom_85544 🇪🇬

I'm justifying why I should cheat. FML.

i find myself thinking about cheating, but when i try to talk myself out of it, I find myself justifying why i should cheat. 1. it would make me happy instead of how miserable i am rn 2. it would make me taste a new woman 3. i would finally know what it feels to be inside a tight hole 4. she would definitely be more fun than mine 5. she would be more into being with me than my wife who is complaining about every breath i take. 6. she would make me interested in sex again after losing my appetite. i try to talk myself out of it but the argument is solid. fml 🤬 i don't need anyone to tell me to be a man or grow up or be responsible. also if you're blunt or not polite, you will be blocked. ...see more

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Apple_52036 🇪🇬

You Don't Need to Solve Everything Today

“Stress has a way of making everything feel heavier than it truly is, pulling your mind in a hundred directions at once. But even in those overwhelming moments, remember that you are not defined by what you’re going through. Take a slow breath and let your thoughts settle. You don’t need to solve everything today. Give yourself permission to pause, to step back, to rest. Strength isn’t only about pushing forward — sometimes it’s in choosing to breathe, reset, and try again with a clearer heart.” ...see more

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Pear_81918 🇩🇿

Going through circles, overthinking everything rn

hey hope ur doing good well im not im going through Circles im overthinking too much I have a lot of family problems extra but I dont really care about them . yes they do effect slowly sometimes I crash out sometimes I cry and that's rarely happens my dad used to hit me and say bad things to me when I was young like 5 till not and im 15 also my grandma she said man don't cry now I cant express my feelings the normal way today I felt soo bad cuz I think everyday that im a useless person I want to be better I want Money to buy clothes and perfume I want to take care of my self and look good its not necessary but the fact that I cant even buy clothes because we don't have money kinda hurts . well I have a lot of clothes but non of them are mine some neighbours and family members I dont have a problem with it actually I like that I get beautiful free clothes but I cant buck what I dont have I also need Money for food cuz I love calisthenics and running and basketball but I only train a little cuz I dont have a reason to u dont even have a reason to live except my mom that would cry if I die she doesn't understand me at all and doesn't help whatsoever but I still love her I also want my own room I dont have brothers I share the room with my 2 sisters I want my personal room to be cool a pc gamer not like my shity pc that can't even run minecraft properly and a calisthenics equipment and a place for my electric stuff I love electronics soo much and robotics I want to learn them soo badly but I cant I dont think because im lazy it's just lack of support no one really care about me I love doing many stuff like playing chess solving rubik's cube (my record is 38seconds :3 ) I have an addiction its gooning I didn't do it for 2 months im kinda proud of my self but not really because I've been doing it for 2 years and watching porn and talking to bitches online I was doing it like 5 to 10 times a day last summer it got to the point that i dont feel bad after doing it I also didn't pray for a wile thats bad I think my addiction did something bad to me idk if I should go to the doctor every time I pee cum comes out I dont even touch my pee pee and it goes out I think my balls work more then normal ppl im not pervert actually I just realised that I also have a crush on a cute short beautiful girl she's kinda weird just like the way I like im obsession with her but sadly she loves another person even tho I see her looking at me a lot in class and talk to me nicely in dm but she loves another guy like I said im an overthinker I always imagine hugging her or aging with her or just talking to her because I never talked to her in class before only in Instagram she knows that she's my crush I told her I told her a little bit of how I think I said that im scared if u get mad at me when I think about us together and a lot of stuff its bad that she doesn't like me but good because we won't be in a haram relationship I have a gf before she's 5 years older she's 20 now she made my life better soo much and now after I broke up with her because I didn't want haram I have a big gap my feelings are fucked I wsnt to be with her soo badly I never met her I never talked to somone near me only online i dont know how to talk im shy my mind is full with stupid thoughts I dont really study it doesn't effect me and my grades I want to get married now that's the only halal way to fill my gap and my lack of love and support I prefer older women probably because they understand and treats me better just like my ex maybe ill have a nother girlfriend if I make sure she will marry me maybe idk anyway if u made it here thx for reading soo much I dont even remember all the things I typed hope u didn't love u and bbye ...see more

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