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I’m boy [23]. After spending about 30 minutes scrolling through this app, I noticed that almost every post seems to be about relationships  love stories, heartbreaks, dating experiences, and all that. It made me stop and think about myself.
I’ve never been in a relationship, and to be honest, I’ve never even seriously thought about starting one. It’s not because I hate the idea I just never felt the need. Every time I meet people of the opposite gender, whether in school, university, or daily life, I keep things pretty superficial. Not out of arrogance, but because I’ve always believed relationships might drain my time and energy two things I prefer to invest in my goals, personal growth, and dreams.
I’ve always thought that focusing on myself was the best path building a stable career, improving my mindset, staying disciplined. But lately, I’ve started to wonder if maybe I’m missing something. People talk about emotional connection, shared moments, support, and love… and sometimes I question whether I’ve been avoiding something that could add real value to my life.
I’m not saying I regret my choices  just that I’m curious. Has anyone else chosen a similar path? Did you ever feel like something was missing, or did it all make sense in the end?

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