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Hey, I’m really going through a tough time right now. It’s not just a breakup for me — I lost both a relationship and the best friendship I had. My ex and I were together for about six months. Honestly, I started it casually at first, but he fell in love and wanted to be with me forever. I told him the truth about everything, even about my age, but he still chose me.

Later, he realized his family would never accept our relationship because I’m older than him. I still tried to save our bond every time things got hard, even when he started giving up. He finally ended things in February, and I was completely broken because it was my first real relationship and I truly wanted it to last.

After the breakup, we stayed best friends and talked like before. For a while, things were fine — I even asked him to continue the relationship till I got a job, and he agreed for two months. Then we broke up again and went back to being friends.

But recently, during an argument, I told him “you destroyed my life.” He took it as disrespect and ended our friendship too. He said he has no respect for me anymore and told me to marry someone else — even saying he’d bring that person himself. That really hurt me.

Now, I’ve realized I can’t hold on anymore. I’ve tried everything to protect this bond, but it’s only breaking me further. I just want to let go, heal, and finally move on with my life.

please help me for moving forward in my life because want he shared it feels genuine to me he didn't cheated on me but he broke me like I can never fix and never forget him

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