moving on

Okay, I'll start... I never loved, and even if I did, I'd move on. I could forget by doing other things... But this time it became difficult for me to forget that person's image... I thought it would last three months and then disappear... now it's worse... I tried forgetting him and doing other things... I'm afraid I won't be able to forget him... I feel stupid for loving him...I don't know if he knows... but my actions betray me every time I see him... I want to lose him... I don't want to love him. There are so many logical reasons why we can't be together... I thought this would make me happy and make it easier to forget him... but it seems to be the worst thing... I see him in my dreams everywhere... like a madwoman... But I decided to overcome these feelings, stop looking at him, and withdraw. I know it hurts, and it still hurts so much that I cry nonstop... not out of love for him, but out of despair with myself.

my childhood friend of 12 years randomly stopped talking to me a few years ago she basically removed herself from my life for no reason suddenly and out of nowhere and that broke me because I had no one but her and because she was my social crutch when she left she took my entire social life with her I had to be socially on my own for the first time in my life and I ended up spending a year in total isolation and that made it even harder to move on from her I have been trying to build myself from scratch ever since

There is a professor at my university . Over time, I started to develop an emotional attachment to him. It wasn’t something I planned or expected; it just happened gradually because I appreciated his personality, the way he teaches, and the intellectual connection I felt with him. For a while, I found myself thinking about him a lot and paying attention to small things related to him. Recently, I decided to step back and focus more on myself, my energy, and my studies. Since then, I noticed something interesting: when I stopped chasing the feeling or thinking about him too much, things related to him sometimes appear in my life unexpectedly, like hearing news about him or seeing something connected to him. Now I feel a bit confused about my emotions. Part of me wants to completely detach and move forward in a healthy way, but another part of me still feels curious and emotionally connected. I would really appreciate hearing your perspectives. How can I better understand this attachment and deal with it in a balanced and healthy way without letting it affect my peace of mind or my academic life?