There is a professor at my university . Over time, I started to develop an emotional attachment to him. It wasn’t something I planned or expected; it just happened gradually because I appreciated his personality, the way he teaches, and the intellectual connection I felt with him. For a while, I found myself thinking about him a lot and paying attention to small things related to him. Recently, I decided to step back and focus more on myself, my energy, and my studies. Since then, I noticed something interesting: when I stopped chasing the feeling or thinking about him too much, things related to him sometimes appear in my life unexpectedly, like hearing news about him or seeing something connected to him. Now I feel a bit confused about my emotions. Part of me wants to completely detach and move forward in a healthy way, but another part of me still feels curious and emotionally connected. I would really appreciate hearing your perspectives. How can I better understand this attachment and deal with it in a balanced and healthy way without letting it affect my peace of mind or my academic life?
First you have attention to someone who doesn't know that you have that emotional to him you have to know if he has the same attention for you or not and they choose continue or not and my opinion focus in your study
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Once the trigger happens there's no coming back, I'm talking about the things related to him that u see appearing consistently, they were there the whole time before u cared about him but since he became of value in ur life those things did too, anyway my humble advice for u is to try to adapt to him not existing in ur life anymore, don't try to get over him cause u probably won't, treat him like a scare, he once was significant and his existence will always leave a mark on u but u'll have to live without paying attention to him anymore cause he doesn't matter that much anyway.
What you're feeling isn't strange Sometimes we develop admiration for someone because of their personality or the way they think especially when they inspire us intellectually This kind of attachment can happen naturally and without planning, but it doesn’t necessarily mean it has to turn into a relationship I think your decision to focus more on yourself and your studies is a very mature step When we stop chasing a thought or a person we sometimes start noticing things related to them more simply because our mind was used to focusing on them That’s a normal psychological reaction Try to deal with this feeling calmly: don’t suppress it completely but also don’t build too much on it You can see it as admiration or appreciation for someone who inspired you intellectually and use that energy to grow, learn, and focus on your goals With time the attachment usually fades naturally as your life becomes fuller with other goals and experiences
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