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Coconut_83207 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Worried

Hello I‘m here to spill the tea I‘ve reached the age of confusion (21yo) I‘m calling it like that because I don‘t know what to do it is very hard guys I think of lot of things of work , study , going abroad and even marriage my head couldn‘t be silent from the day I start this new life and I told m

Coconut_83019 🇩🇿 same age same confusion ,but it's fine allah knows better ,Allah's plans are the best, ask allah for guidance

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Biscuit_78863 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Annoyed

I'm glad to find this app so i can finally share about something i alwaythe s couldn't understand in the other hand i find it silly and a little shame to open this subject with my friends. Anyways I'm still wondering why I can't understand girl's behaviors around me , still can't be sure if she's ge

Marshmallow_80453 🇩🇿 if u like her , take ur shot , and its okey if u get rejected at least u tried for the one u wanted

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Avocado_80766 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Lost

I don’t know what to do of my life , i chooses a creer and now i feel that it’s not for me but i have to stay because i want to finish my master degree next year i feel unmotivated but it wasn’t the case a week ago …

Coffee_68646 🇪🇬

3 months ago

Feeling Emotional

The time of the one was comfortable with a lot of noise, strangulation, and icing, now the topic is difficult. I must deal with all countries and the same time remain comfortable, what is the solution and happen, how do you know how to solve it, how do I know what to do,

Waffle_52564 🇺🇸

6 months ago

Feeling Confused

Confused, uncertain, and unemotional. I have no emotional attachment to humans, I don't seek interactions anymore, I'm actually only here because I had a long conversation with Copilot. I find solace in writing, building stories and worlds to escape something I don't even know what it is. I like to

Apple_52235 🇺🇸

9 months ago

Feeling Sorry

I dated one of my best friends a year ago now maybe half a year ago, and all I do is think about her, to the point I feel sick, I think I still like her? or maybe wanna be friends again, I really wanna talk to her but I can’t bring myself too, it feels humiliating, and I hate telling my friends abou

Mango_11276 🇶🇦 reach out to her, life is too short to be afraid of acting based on your feelings, if you like someone you can basically reach out and tell them how you feel and about how you truly feel and just listen to what she has to say and take it as man. If she agrees, great she still likes you as well and everything will fall into the right place, if not, then you will have clarity about her feelings.

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Mango_11276 🇶🇦

9 months ago

Feeling Confused

I think I’m very toxic to the level that people think I’m not. Everyone keeps telling me that I’m the best person they met and they keep telling about how they like the way i see things and my way of thinking, but dayum, their actions don’t align at all with what they keep telling me which is funny.

Broccoli_50707 🇪🇬

9 months ago

Feeling Alone

i really don’t know what happened to us these last days every time we saw each others we don’t stop fighting although we have been missing each others.. I don’t know what to do for that really

Broccoli_51728 🇩🇿

10 months ago

Feeling Frustrated

hello, I made a mistake and I feel so bad about it so I started talking to this person, and they fell in love with me but personally I wasn't sure about my feelings towards them, and I low-key kept my options open, we kept talking for months, after a while, the second person entered the line, I let

Pumpkin_29690 🇩🇪 This is just a thought not advice but maybe it will help you. It sounds to me like you like the idea of being with someone but the two people you are talking to are maybe not the right fit OR you just don't know what you are looking for in a person yet so you leave your options open to figure out which one is a better fit. I thinks that's human so don't beat yourself up about it too much.

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Orange_48242 🇹🇳

11 months ago

Feeling Meh

Hi, I'm a boy and all my life I've never loved a girl. I'm 18 now and I've never felt this feeling. Is this weird? When I see my friends with their girlfriends and they're having fun I think to myself "this must be a nice feeling". I know this feeling may be at first sight or after some time but I k

Cookies_40305 🇲🇦

1 year ago

Feeling Lost

how to move on? after my dad got sick, I couldn't move on for more than 5 years now I can't concentrate on my study or on finding a job that corresponds my family conditions I'm tired confused and aware that I'm losing time and opportunities

Croissant_40518 🇪🇬 Don't think that because what you went through was bad, you won't be able to live. You are just your thoughts. Keep in mind that this is normal and that this is not in your hands and that this is just an experience. Think in a positive way, change your study location, and practice a hobby, even if it is difficult.

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Sugar_35854 🇲🇦

1 year ago

Feeling Angry

Express your Feeling anonymously

everyone things they are deep including myself nowadays and this is very annoying , 
everyone is thinking they are deeper than others. 
I'm loosing myself in this and confused with the existence of opposite sides, tired of listening to different parts of myself that I'm calling soul , psyche , body ...is even this distinction real or we just made this up with a bunch of people which makes it more real.
I was developing curiosity over judgement but my constant exposure to people makes me forget my values
(And I'm aware it is actually an opportunity to sharpen and understand the nuances of every value I'm choosing but I feel upset because why the hell I'm choosing this path why the hell I'm choosing more responsibility why the fuck I'm trying to build values , why the fuck I'm trying my best to heal and to be an adult to finally deal with a bunch of babies)
I don't care that my writing seems arrogant, cocky lacking humbleness because I'm upset , this is part of being authentic and real is being brave enough to show your truth as it is RAW and savage (I figured that out while I was building the value of authenticity and honesty that needs courage and bravery by their side with letting go the need to be liked or loved or whatever which actually lead to something much better appreciating/loving/respecting yourself , also there is another angle the trade off thing being able to see everything as a trade off you wanna be liked by others? You may give up liking yourself in the process or you can go the other way and of course I'll always choose the other way )
 I know deep down we actually don't know anything we just have the illusion of knowing because we can't handle uncertainty, we can't accept the fact that we have no idea what the fuck is going on we believe in spirituality, religion, science as something solid and accurate and we forget we are just guessing we just trying to make sense of things that doesn't make sense
We forget If something is meaningless or meaningful is just our choice we choose what's meaningful for us can be meaningless to others and we can't handle that we forget what we choose can be unchosen by others 
What I'm expressing now feels real accurate and permanent but it's not 
What is real is silence is nothingess is uncertainty is observation without interpretation

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Pear_63699 🇪🇬

Not Me When I Hate Everyone & Get Angry So Easily

I know it's not me when I suddenly hate everyone, and get angry so easily over everything maybeitsbecausehecamebackandistryingtoactlikehedidintghostmeforamonththatweirdassguyhedoneallofthatjustbecauseifoundouthisrealnamebecauseofhisstupidty ...see more

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Mushroom_85544 🇪🇬

I'm justifying why I should cheat. FML.

i find myself thinking about cheating, but when i try to talk myself out of it, I find myself justifying why i should cheat. 1. it would make me happy instead of how miserable i am rn 2. it would make me taste a new woman 3. i would finally know what it feels to be inside a tight hole 4. she would definitely be more fun than mine 5. she would be more into being with me than my wife who is complaining about every breath i take. 6. she would make me interested in sex again after losing my appetite. i try to talk myself out of it but the argument is solid. fml 🤬 i don't need anyone to tell me to be a man or grow up or be responsible. also if you're blunt or not polite, you will be blocked. ...see more

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Apple_52036 🇪🇬

You Don't Need to Solve Everything Today

“Stress has a way of making everything feel heavier than it truly is, pulling your mind in a hundred directions at once. But even in those overwhelming moments, remember that you are not defined by what you’re going through. Take a slow breath and let your thoughts settle. You don’t need to solve everything today. Give yourself permission to pause, to step back, to rest. Strength isn’t only about pushing forward — sometimes it’s in choosing to breathe, reset, and try again with a clearer heart.” ...see more

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