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Pear_81918 🇩🇿

4 weeks ago

Feeling Alone

hey guys I dont know if I am good or no cuz it turns out my little 10yo sister has cancer and I feel bad I wish I had cancer instead of her well im also young im 15yo but I went through a lot already like last 2 surgeries I was about to die but hmdlh I didn't and I did a 3rd surgery when I was 6yo

Chocolate_80743 🇩🇿 it'okeey i'm here ..with uu❤️‍🩹

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Cheese_81044 🇩🇿

1 month ago

Feeling Heartbroken

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my mom want a divorce after being married for 20 yo 
she wanted it from the start and she when she had a chance she did it I'm not sure why but I think my parents both have problems and they can't get along anyway i thought my life will be better after the divorce but (I stayed with my mom ) I thought she was treating us this bad because my dad were stressing her and traumatizing her by his attitude anger issues disrespect but she became more Wild when she was taking care of us all alone always angry always disappointed always complaining and humiliating us she had money but most of the time we don't have food no cleaning my sister clean for her and she didn't allow her to use phone she 15 yo 
and sometimes she complains about seeing her sleeping like my mom work and had 3 other payments but when I complain that she's int taking care of us I became ungrateful sometimes she hide food and when dad give my siblings money for school she took it from them I had so many bad situation with both of them my dad is trying to be good for us and I think she hate us and she's wishing we're not her responsibility 
before divorce I became sick ( depressed ) I stayed at my room for a year and I didn't get any help she took me to therapist but all I see her doing is complaining about my behaviour when I'm sick and she blamed me for so many things and said shit to me okay so that made me hate her and not accept any humiliation or disrespect from her we fought many times and it gets worse and worse until she led hand on me when we're were having an arguments and I hit her back she called her brothers they attacked me ( I'm not saying I'm innocent but I was literally done with her I has anger issues and I heavy heart seeing us lost and sad all of the time and I'm blaming them ) she allowed herself to say that I'm a mistake and I'm a h**r 
like I was raised in an angry environment that's full of hate 
I'm overwhelmed I can't forgive I can't forget I want to leave but people keep blaming me but I'll do what makes me feel happy no matter what even if that means leaving 
anyway I talked a lot what do you think

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Apple_57254 🇪🇬

2 months ago

Feeling Stressed

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i only come here when im tired of writing on paper and i feel like needing to talk to a human being not an object.
I'm stressed, lost and overwhelmed. it's hard being a caregiver to a sick parent who has regular hospital visits, a student and a parent to your parents and holding a household together all at once while having your own mental,  personal and health struggles. 
i keep denying that I'm lost but i can't anyone but the thing is, I'm drained i don't have energy left to find myself again and like someone important to me told me today " it's not fair to just keep living to the expectations your parents have of you, it's not fair to you" and i agree it's not fair that it's consuming me and leaving me with nothing to give for myself. i just want some rest, some time, some energy to be present while i do something. i feel more like a robot than human. and the only thing i do for myself is haram and i can't give it up because I'm clinging to any bit of comfort i can get. 
i sometimes catch myself thinking that i really need someone to care for me, someone that i don't have to be strong with someone who will not just take my love and energy but also appreciate and give them back, at other time i think that i just want any spare or leftover energy to do all that for myself but well i don't have both.
imagine having to do all this alone while also caring for your own physical, mental and emotional and you also gotta work on yourself to be better educated wise, maturity and personality wise and also looks wise, it's just hard.
i know i yapped a lot and it was all negative but still can't deny that I'm grateful for many things in my life like having my brothers and still being here and not giving up and still trying despite everything, I'm grateful for my having access to food and snacks as they bring me a little joy and I'm grateful for sometimes having ingredients to make baked goods, baking is like the sweetest escape and im grateful for my stuffed animals too and my moon candle♡
both lists can go on the good and the bad but i don't think anyone will even read this far so i guess that's enough

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Marshmallow_63584 🇺🇸

2 months ago

Feeling Exhausted

I just feel tired of all things happening with life. At times I just want to stop and relax but resting doesn't feel like rest since all the worries are floating around my head just wanting to be solved and finished all at once. But it never stops even if you finish one. (its not just about work but

Chilli_63940 🇪🇬 Everything will be better, God willing. May God comfort us all. God is capable of everything.

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Avocado_50987 🇪🇬

4 months ago

Feeling Stressed

Hello, folks, I have a lot of money on Saturday and I have a lot of coefficients I do not know if I remember, especially physiological, "I feel ""extreme pressure"" and at the same time I feel like I can't remember and my energy is over."

Strawberry_59775 🇪🇬

4 months ago

Feeling Drained

I feel like a horrible person. the only time I try to put myself first before others I feel like I ruined my sister's life she often asks me to get out even though I try to explain I don't want to go somewhere where there is alot of people because of my social anxiety and today I finally told her no

Hazelnut_52786 🇪🇬 You’re not a bad person — you’re just taking care of your own mental health, and that’s valid. Your sister is responsible for her own choices, even if she was disappointed. Try to comfort her with some kind words, remind her you care, and maybe find a compromise that works for both of you.

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Popcorn_52487 🇨🇭

6 months ago

Feeling Lost

I feel like I’m drowning into a deep ocean, like I can’t breathe anymore, I live my life with this for almost 2 years and it gets worse, sometimes I lose control of myself and can’t breathe automatically, sometimes I act weirdly happy when something happens in my family like engagements , weddings o

Marshmallow_25276 🇮🇶

1 year ago

Feeling Heartbroken

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كم مرة تعرضتم للخيانة من شريك حياتكم؟

last two days idk how to deal with it and if i can give another chance idk alot I'm so confused if anyone can help me with this I would be grateful. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Mushroom_23214 🇦🇪 اكتبي تفاصيل اكتر عشان نفهم ونقدر نقول وجهه نظرنا واللي تعمليه

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Watermelon_18723 🇫🇷

1 year ago

Feeling Fed up

Im feeling stressed and dunno what to do

Biscuit_17258 🇪🇬

1 year ago

Feeling Okay 😐

I can't handle all of this🫠

Strawberry_16461 🇳🇴

1 year ago

Feeling Okay 😐

was good a long time, now I feel overwhelmed because I have so much to do. have to clean my room, shower, and do schoolwork. feels like I am never going to make it, but I don’t want to go back down, after so much work of going up again

Avocado_11710 🇪🇬

1 year ago

Feeling Bad 😞

i just wanna stop this feeling 😭😭😭😭

Mango_11276 🇶🇦

1 year ago

Feeling Okay 😐

I’m so stressed, super stressed, my eyes keeps tearing up Idek what’s going on, the idea of having so many things to get done all at once during the same period of time is stressing the shit out of me!

Cherry_5932

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

I need some time💙

Apple_8613

1 year ago

Feeling Bad 😞

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😩😩😩

Chocolate_64253 🇪🇬

عايزة أكون أحسن علشان متحسش إني قليلة لما أتخطب

انا لو شايفه نفسي مش حلوه اي الصفات اللي مفروض تكون فيا علشان فالمستقبل لما اتخطب محسش اني قليله طبعا الاخلاق رقم واحد ، غير كده ايه الصفات اللي الشباب بتحبها فالبنت غير شكلها ، انا بتكلم علشان يبقي عندي خلفيه فالمستقبل ... ...see more

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Sugar_87672 🇪🇬

مش بعرف أكون صداقات حقيقية.. حد عنده نصايح؟

حاسة إني مش بعرف أكون صداقات أو علاقات اجتماعية حقيقية. بحاول أفتح نفسي للناس، لكن غالبًا بحس بالمسافة أو البرود، ومش عارفة إزاي أكوّن روابط تستمر. أغلب الصحاب اللي بعرفهم، علاقاتهم بتنتهي بعد فترة الدراسة أو الشغل، وبعدين كل واحد بيكمل حياته ومش بيكون موجود. ساعات بحس إني لو حاولت أتعرف على حد، هيتكرر نفس النمط، وده بيخليني أرجع أتمسّك بعزلتي. حد عنده نصائح أو مرة بتجارب زى كدة ...see more

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Biscuit_87034 🇪🇬

مش عارفة اتخطى حب مراهقتي وبقيت حياتي واقفه

انا كنت بحب حد والحد ده سابني بقاله سنتين وعشر شهور انا مش عارفه اتخطاه خالص مش عارفه حاولت كتير اوي الموضوع تاعبني نفسيا اوي نفسي أنساه بجد بس مش عارفه المفروض أن ده كان حب مراهقه كنت صغيره اوي 17 سنه ولحد هذا الان بقيت 20 ومش عارفه يمكن عشان الوقت الي حبيته فيه كان في مشاكل كبيره اوي انا متربيه من صغري علي المشاكل والخوف بسبب ابويا لدرجه أن الي كنت بحبه ده كان حنين عليا فوق الوصف فعتبرته ساعتها بدل ابويا يعني كان هو مصدر امان بالنسبالي ومن بعد ما سابني وانا كل مشكله بتحصل معايا بفتكره هو اول واحد هو اول واحد بيجي في بالي بفتكر حنيته عليا تعبت من كتر التفكير فيه يوميا لازم افكر فيه قبل ما انام يوميا لو زعلانه بفتكره تلقائي كده بقيت حاسه أنه شاغل تفكيري كله هتقولولي اشغلي نفسك اقسم بالله بروح كليتي وارجع علي الشغل بخلص 10 بليل واول ما بحط دماغي علي المخده بفتكره بردو وبقعد أخلق مواقف حلوه وهميه بيني وبينه والحاجات دي مش موجوده اصلا بس مش عارفه الي بيحصل ساعات بقول ياريته كان معايا دلوقتي وساعات ببقي مش طايقه ابص في وشه كل ما اقول خلاص نسيته برجع افتكره تاني برغم أن مش بشوفه اصلا وعملاله بلوك من كل حته وكمان هو اصلا مش عايزني ولا انا عايزاه هو ارتبط ب 2 بعدي وعاش حياته انا حاسه حياتي واقفه عليه نفسيتي تعبانه اوي ...see more

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