Before me and my boyfriend were together he was very close with this girl he really really liked. They got closer then i ever had with anyone. They were never offically together because she ended it with him. They ended on good terms but my boyfriend had a hard time with the loss of that relationship. It doesnt happen often, but when she gets brought up my heart gets stuck in my throat and my body has like a bad feeling. Almost anxiety but it’s different its more unsettled then panic. My boyfriend doesnt talk about her, doesnt see her, he doesn’t talk to her on his phone. But its like because the ending of the relationship wasnt his choice it makes me worried he still wants her. I dont get any signs from him that he does but i did get very very hurt by him from a betrayal that happened a year ago in a completely different situation. I feel like i could absolutely be overthinking all of this and when im with my boyfriend i dont worry about other girls hes a great boyfriend and i know and feel that he loves me so much. What do you think this feeling is and what should i do? I dont think theres anything my boyfriend can do because he hasnt done anything wrong at all. But i also dont want to gaslight myself into thinking its overthinking you know?
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Honestly I think you should just communicate with him about it gently. Tell him that hearing about her or bringing her up makes you uncomfortable and hurts your feelings. If he’s a good boyfriend and treats you well, don’t lose him over overthinking. Your feelings are valid, but communication is probably the best thing here 💛
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