Grape_10761
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How do y'all stop comparing yourself for example for friends that are living better and I mean I failed and didn't get it to uni but my friends did so now I have month left it's my second year and I feel like I'm gonna fail again bc I didn't do much to pass doesn't mean I didn't try okay sometimes I just think about ending it not just bc of this but a lot of things that I don't even understand to explain I don't know how it all became so complicated I mean my life truly I'm not talking as a victim but I want to make it better sincerely

Potato_12796
Potato_12796🇪🇬Top 3Best Advice24d ago

Each of us has a life and a path different from others. Try to focus on your own life and how many good things you have. Strive in your studies, not to catch up with others, but to achieve things for yourself. If you fail once, it doesn't mean you're a failure; it means you're learning, you're trying. There's nothing wrong with that. Your worth isn't determined solely by what you achieve, but also by the attempts you make. And the beautiful thing is, you have an endless number of attempts.

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Durian_16384
Durian_16384🇬🇧Top 1011d ago

Hey, I understand how you must feel. But first and foremost please stop comparing and competing with others. This life is a test. What is the ultimate goal??

Chilli_15139
Chilli_15139🇩🇿Top 5020d ago

Okay , first , based on personal experience, a month is enough to at least get an average score , I studied languages in highschool, I didn't study fory bac , I still passed , my average was 10 , tho I regret that now because it wasn't enough to study what I wanted which led me to what I am today, I don't know your life or what you're going through, but think only one thing, you must try your best for this exam because this will open so many doors for you , even if you don't pass this year , there's next year and the year after , as long as you try your best and never give up , all will be well , and about comparing yourself to others , well I know a woman who's in her 50s and she still compares her life to others , so i guess the only thing anyone can do about it is think about other people's success and take it as a motivation to also achieve it , "if they could do it why can't i?" Is what you should always tell yourself

Strawberry_14543
Strawberry_14543🇩🇿23d ago

You really should take it easy and always remember you aree young and it's okeyy not to make it at the first time or the second matter of fact that's how u grow and learn so I how that you don't be so tough on yourself it's your first time living too , and i bac is really easy study from YouTube alot it will help and if u need advice I can help u study for it

Candle_13080
Candle_13080🇲🇲24d ago

First and only you have to think. You still have One Month Left 1) What do you need to pass your exam? 2) What can you do to pass? 3) Which type of help can you ask from your friends and your teachers and your guardians ? Okay ! Just Start from today.

Candle_13080
Candle_13080🇲🇲24d ago

Don't forget to have a study timetable for one month and stick to that, please. Good Luck!

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